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How can I find a balance of avoiding burn out vs feeling like a doormat? Love and wisdom vs. setting boundaries. Specifically thinking of Galatians 6:9; Matthew 5:39; and Matthew 7:6.

Biblically, boundaries relate to self-control. The Bible commands us to control ourselves, while
our human nature often desires to control others or to let others control us (Titus 2:12). If left
unchecked, our natural desires can dominate others. Personal boundaries help limit our selfish
tendency to control or manipulate others. Similarly, boundaries protect us from those who lack
self-control and seek to control us. A person with clear, healthy boundaries communicates to
others what is and isn't allowed, effectively saying, “This is my area of control, and you have no
right to interfere.”

Boundaries can be used in both healthy and sinful ways. The key to determining if a boundary is
Godly is to examine your motive. Are you protecting yourself or someone weaker from potential
harm, whether emotional or physical? If so, then you are setting healthy and necessary
boundaries. However, if you are keeping your distance simply to exclude someone, that is sinful.
Boundaries that create cliques or hinder ministry opportunities are unhelpful.

Proper boundaries help believers keep out worldly influences. Children of the light have no
fellowship with darkness and are therefore separate from the world (2 Corinthians 6:14). Being
kind and friendly is Christ-like, but we are not to adopt the world’s ways (James 4:4). Our goal is
not to keep people at a distance, but when others are being harmful, the boundaries we establish
can limit the evil they do against us.

Boundaries involve taking responsibility for our lives. God gives us the freedom to choose
whether to live within His boundaries or outside of them, and choosing outside of God’s
boundaries means accepting the consequences. Living within God’s boundaries leads to
blessings, while stepping outside of them results in destruction and death (Romans 6:23). In the
Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve had one boundary: to abstain from the fruit of the tree of the
knowledge of good and evil. The Lord allowed them the freedom to stay within His bounds, but
they chose to overstep and sin. Their response to God’s revelation of their sin was to blame others
instead of taking responsibility for their lack of self-control. Eve blamed Satan, and Adam
blamed Eve (Genesis 3:12-13). Boundaries keep destructive behaviors in check, which is why
both God and society establish laws and consequences for those who break them (Romans 13:1-
4).

Some see boundaries as "mean." However, often with maturity, they realize that boundaries are
meant to keep everyone safe. Those who were raised without protective boundaries often
interpret a “no" as "mean" because they never learned self-control. Some feel disappointed when
they do not get what they want, but learning to accept “no” from others is vital for developing
Godly character. Nonetheless, setting boundaries must be done in loving ways with loving intent.
(Ephesians 6:4; Colossians 3:21; Titus 2:4).

A person with healthy boundaries takes responsibility for their own life and allows others to live
theirs. The purpose of boundaries is to make sacrifices for others when appropriate, but never in a
harmful way. We should be available to people in crisis, but not to unreasonable demands. Being
gracious is not a free pass for others to continually drain our emotional resources. Saying “yes”
out of fear of rejection is often a selfish reason for kindness. Being kind to gain someone’s favor
can seem hypocritical and signals a need for boundaries. Fear of disapproval from others can lead
to codependency, which is an unhealthy alternative to healthy interdependence.

Boundaries teach us to accept each other as different yet valuable. God uses boundaries to help us
appreciate people's differences rather than be upset by them. A Godly friend tells us what we
need to hear, not necessarily what we want to hear (Proverbs 27:6). We are free to be ourselves
with others if we control ourselves. Boundaries are not selfish when we use our freedom to serve
and love one another because we keep our own flesh under control (Galatians 5:13). In a Godly
relationship, both people are free to love each other and be themselves because neither is using or
manipulating the other.

Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). A believer who recognizes the importance
of self-control to take responsibility for their actions and avoid infringing on others will seek the
Lord’s help to develop this character trait. Boundaries are a result of submitting to God’s will,
and He will empower us to make Godly choices.

Being Christ-like means we can say “no” in unselfish and helpful ways. Sometimes, love requires
us to say “no” to those we care about. For example, if a family member is being abusive to
another family member, it is Christ-like to address them. A proper boundary has then been
established. If the response is to get angry, leave, and never return, then that person simply was
not able to respect the boundary. It is not sinful to say "no" to someone who is crossing personal
boundaries in harmful or destructive ways.

Boundaries can be hard to set because saying “no” might have been discouraged or wrongly
taught as being ungodly. God says to tell the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). God tells us to
humbly control ourselves, lovingly confront sin, graciously accept others, and overcome evil with
good (Romans 12:21). Plus, He promises wisdom in every situation (James 1:5).

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How do I balance witnessing and working at my job? I work at a restaurant and people go there to eat. So they may be offended if they feel they are being preached at. Same goes with roofing, plumbing, or any other job.


The ultimate way to build the Church of Christ is illustrated in the story of Andrew, who brought
his brother Simon to Jesus. The most effective way to win the world for Christ is
personal—bringing people to Christ one at a time—this is Christ’s plan. When you read the Holy
Scriptures, it’s clear that God expects every friend He has to go out and try to win others to this
great side and service of Jesus. “Ye shall be witnesses unto me,” said Jesus, “both in Jerusalem,
and in all Judea, and in Samaria, and to the uttermost parts of the earth.” Acts 1:8. The early
church went out and, in just one short generation, shook the Roman Empire to its core. It was a
pagan, selfish, corrupt empire. Yet, in a short time, that early church had shaken the Roman
Empire from the center to the edges and lit the Gospel light across the vast domain, and they did
so through personal means. Every Christian, no matter how humble, can win someone else to
Christ.

The Bible makes it clear that Jesus expects each of His friends to tell someone else about Him.
What would you think of someone with an incurable disease who then finds a doctor able to cure
it? Now, imagine you contracted the same disease and went to this friend, saying, “Please tell me
quickly the name of the doctor who cured you of this terrible disease; I have it and want to be
cured too.” Then, picture your friend replying, “I’m not going to tell you.” You can’t imagine
such a thing, can you? You can’t picture someone being that selfish; you can’t imagine anyone
committing murder—because that’s what it would be if they had knowledge that could save you
and refused to share it. My friends, I believe many are guilty of spiritual murder, for countless
Christians have the knowledge that could save people, yet they are unwilling to share it with
others.

Dr. Andrew Murray reminded us of this fact: “If there were only one Christian in the whole world
and if that one Christian worked for an entire year to win just one other to Christ, and in the
second year, those two Christians each worked a full year to win one more to Christ, and if
everyone who was won to Christ kept sharing their faith, taking a whole year to win just one
more each, it would only take 32 years to bring the entire world to the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Just think about that. A person often visits the restaurant where you work, and you mention Jesus
whenever you get the chance. Even if it takes a year, you've started something very special and
potentially life-changing for many others. Of course, you don't want to cause your employer any
loss of business or break any rules; however, simply living, acting, talking, and being like Jesus
could make a big difference in many people's lives.

Jesus said, “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my
witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” (Acts 1:8
NIV) He said this to His followers, and the result was evangelism. The Gospel spread to the areas
He mentioned because His followers witnessed to it.

Jesus gave us the Great Commission of the church, “all authority in heaven and on earth has been
given to me. Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the
Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have
commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:18-
20 NIV)

Evangelism was the focus of the Great Commission, and it should be the focus of every Christian
today. When a Christian stops caring about winning souls, they begin to lose their first love.
Whatever your current status, job, hobby, or activity in life may be, we must do everything we
can within the guidance of God's word to tell others about the saving grace of Jesus!!

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Leave and Cleave: Should couples be taught in premarital counseling the principle of Leave and Cleave?  How does this concept apply to modern day couples? Does it apply to both husband and wife? Does it mean one should support their spouse regardless of any situation? 

Gen 2:24 KJV “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his
wife: and they shall be one flesh”. Other translations render “leave and cleave” as “leave and be
united” (NIV), “leave and be joined” (NASB), and “leave and hold fast” (ESV). So, what exactly
does it mean to leave your father and mother and cleave to your spouse?

Mat 19:4-6 ASV “And he answered and said, Have ye not read, that he who made them from the
beginning made them male and female, (5) and said, For this cause shall a man leave his father
and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh? (6) So that they are
no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”

Eph 5:31 “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and
the two shall become one flesh.”

God created Adam first, then Eve. God Himself brought Eve to Adam and ordained that they
would be joined together. He said that the two would become one flesh. This illustrates marital
intimacy—the act of love that is never to involve anyone else. To “cleave” means “to adhere to,
stick to, or join with.” It is a special union of two people into one entity. It means not quitting
when things aren’t going well. It includes talking things out, praying through problems, being
patient as you trust God to work in both of your hearts, admitting when you are wrong and asking
for forgiveness, and regularly seeking God’s guidance in His Word.

If either spouse fails to both leave and cleave, problems will arise in the marriage. If spouses
don’t truly leave their parents, conflict and stress will follow. Leaving your parents doesn’t mean
ignoring them or avoiding spending time with them. It means recognizing that your marriage has
created a new family and that this new family should be a higher priority than your previous one.
If spouses neglect to cleave to each other, they will lack intimacy and unity. Cleaving doesn’t
mean being with your spouse every moment or avoiding meaningful friendships outside the
marriage. It means recognizing that you are joined—essentially “glued”—to your spouse.
Cleaving is vital for building a marriage that endures tough times and becomes the beautiful
relationship God intends. 

The “leave and cleave” principle in marriage also reflects the union God desires with us. “Ye
shall walk after the LORD your God, and fear him, and keep his commandments, and obey his
voice, and ye shall serve him, and cleave unto him” (Deut 13:4). It means leaving all other gods,
no matter what form they take, and uniting with Him alone as our God. We cleave to Him
through reading His Word and submitting to His authority. As we follow Him closely, we see that
His instruction to leave father and mother and cleave to our spouse provides commitment and
security, just as He intended. God takes His plan for marriage seriously. Leaving and cleaving are
His design for those who marry. When we follow His plan, we are never disappointed.

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Referring to the book of Job (chapter 2), likewise, as Satan did against Job, does Satan continue to this day making accusations to God about us? Also when God said to Satan (Job 2:6) "Very well, then, he is in your hands; but you must spare his life," does God do that to us today, just as he did to Job and told Satan basically to have at him? Many questions and uneasy feelings from this, but I will leave it simple and leave it at that

Are Christians vulnerable to Satan’s attacks? The answer is yes, and this is clear because the New
Testament frequently instructs believers to be alert against the devil and his tactics. Satan is
described as “your adversary,” says 1 Pet 5:8; therefore, “be on the alert.” James 4:7 warns us to
“resist the devil.” “Do not give the devil an opportunity,” says Eph 4:27. Paul emphasizes that we
face a spiritual battle and must be equipped with the full armor of God (Eph 6:10-17). Those who
are not vigilant against deceptive spirits might fall away, as 1 Tim 4:1 states (see 2 Cor 11:3).

Though Satan and his demons try their best to control our minds, wills, and bodies, we must
remember that they are created beings and do not have infinite power; they remain under God’s
authority. Also, we should remember that Jesus Christ has already fought them in battle and
decisively defeated them, and we stand with Him sharing in His victory. One reason Jesus came
was to confront and defeat the devil (1 John 3:8). Through His death and resurrection, He has
made Satan powerless (Heb 2:14) and disarmed the demons (Col 2:15). He has defeated and
bound the devil, limiting his power (Rev 12:7-9; 20:1-3). The Holy Spirit living in us is greater
than evil spirits (1 John 4:4).

We can prevent Satan from controlling our minds by knowing the truth. The first piece of the
armor of God is truth: “having girded your loins with truth” (Eph 6:14). This is our most basic
defense against the devil; understanding the truth revealed in God’s Word is essential for freedom
from deception (John 8:32). However, simply knowing what the Bible teaches is not enough; we
must also believe the truth and love it (2 Thess 2:10-12). We need to internalize it, take joy in it,
and confidently use it in our personal lives and church activities. 

We can also resist Satan’s temptations by submitting our wills to the sanctifying power of the
indwelling Holy Spirit (Eph 6:14-18). Through His power, we can put sin to death in our lives
(Rom 8:13). He gives us inner strength to walk in paths of righteousness, a strength greater than
Satan’s alluring temptations (Rom 8:14; 1 John 4:4). Job, of the OT, did not have this wonderful
protection. God protected Job in a very different way. We are told Job was a righteous man. It is
interesting that the more we practice righteousness, the stronger we become. Righteousness is, in
fact, the second item of the armor of God: “having put on the breastplate of righteousness” (Eph
6:14).

Additionally, we can prevent demons from entering our bodies by avoiding activities that give
them an opportunity to enter (Eph 4:27) and by consciously trusting in the protective power of the
name and blood of Jesus Christ (“the shield of faith,” Eph 6:16). Activities that open someone up
to demonic influence include idol worship, gross immorality, occult practices, seeking
supernatural knowledge or powers, and mysticism or mystical trance states. When one walks in
righteousness and wears the armor of God, he need not fear being invaded by satan and his
demons.

​Satan and his demons are real, active, powerful, and dangerous, but they are no match for our
divine and almighty Redeemer, Jesus Christ. Jesus has already crushed the serpent’s head (Gen
3:15) in His victorious death and resurrection, and He will soon crush Satan under our feet (Rom
16:20).

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Why did God choose the Jewish people as His “chosen” people and as the people to bring the Savior through. Especially when He knew the Jewish people would reject Him and not believe in Jesus Christ?!

We often think of Israel as a nation today, which they are now, but that was not always the case.
When we read the book of Genesis, we notice that there was no nation of Israel; that’s because it
did not exist yet. We should focus not on a nation but on a man. The beginning of God’s promise
to these people did not start when they became a nation; it started with one man, Abraham.

From this promise, we see that God did not choose a nation outright; He chose a man and built a
nation from him. It’s not as if God randomly picked Israel; He made Israel into a great nation,
fulfilling a promise He made to Abraham. This doesn’t make Israel more special; it makes God
more special because He keeps His promises. When you think of the nation of Israel, even the
land where Israel is located, we are reminded that when God says something, He will do it. The
Israelites were God’s chosen people because they represent God’s faithfulness to Abraham and
His commitment to keeping His word.

God was establishing the lineage through which Jesus would come. This is really the main reason
why God chose Israel to be His chosen people. The coming of Jesus fulfilled a major promise
God made to Abraham—that everyone alive now, who will live, or has ever lived, can benefit
from (Genesis 12:3).

How is it even possible that a small nation, not much bigger than New Jersey, could bless all the
peoples on Earth? The reason is that from Abraham’s lineage, we get to the Messiah, Jesus. It is
through Jesus that this promise is fulfilled. Because of Jesus, the offer of salvation flows to every
person and all peoples on the face of the Earth.

As we turn to the book of Revelation, we find a scene in which John sees people gathered around
the throne. Notice what John says:

“After this, I looked, and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from
every nation, tribe, people, and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb. They
were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands.” (Rev 7:9)

​When God called Abraham in Genesis 12, He had Revelation 7 in mind. He didn’t just focus on
one nation; He had all the nations of the world in view. He chose Abraham and established a
nation through him, which ultimately led to Jesus. In Jesus, we see the fulfillment of the promise
made in Genesis, and we understand the result of that promise in Revelation. Notice that people
from every nation, tribe, language, and people will one day gather around the throne to worship
the Lamb. This demonstrates how all the people on earth are blessed through the seed of
Abraham.

A comparison between the promise God made to Israel and the promise God makes to us as
believers is found in the following verse:

“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that
you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once
you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but
now you have received mercy”. (1Peter 2:9-10)

Thankfully, God’s promise did not end with the nation of Israel. His faithfulness to keep His
Word is not just true for Israel; it applies to all people. By trusting in Christ as your Lord and
Savior and obeying Him (Acts 2:38-39), you are now God’s special possession. You have been
called out of darkness, and God has saved you so you can be a light, pointing others to Jesus.
Like Israel, Christians were once not a people, but now they are the people of God. It is now the
Christian’s responsibility to uphold God’s standards on earth. The incredible thing is that this
promise, like the one God made to Abraham, will last forever. Let not only the nation of Israel
serve as a reminder, but also let the cross of Calvary be a permanent reminder that God is faithful
and that He keeps His Word. What He has said, He will do. Why did God choose Israel to be His
chosen people? Ultimately, because of the cross of Calvary and Jesus dying on it. And it is
because of that same cross that God chose us to be His special possession.

The nation of Israel was God's people under the Old Covenant, and the church is God's people
under the New Covenant. However, the church is not a simple continuation of Israel. OT Israel
existed before Christ, and the church exists after Christ. In a real sense, Christ's coming was a
turning point in history that required a change in many aspects of God's people's lives. 

The basic reason for this is found in the fundamental purpose for which God chose the original
Israel in the first place. The keyword is preparation. Israel’s main (if not sole) reason for her
special relation to God was to prepare the way for the first coming of Christ, the Savior of the
world. God chose this nation as a farmer chooses a field for a crop, and He dealt with this nation
as a farmer plows and works His field in preparing to sow His seed.

The church, as the new Israel, exists after Christ's first coming, and its covenant relationship with
God and its kingdom governance cannot be the same as those of OT Israel. For example, while
OT worship (such as sin offerings) subtly pointed to Christ and was fulfilled in Him, NT worship
(such as the Lord’s Supper) clearly looks back to and proclaims His already accomplished saving
work.

The church’s role can be summed up not in the word preparation, but in the word proclamation.
That is, the church exists to proclaim that the Messiah has already come (1 Pet 2:9) and to invite
the world to participate in all the blessings of salvation He has provided. Thank you, Jesus!

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I've heard it said, "They will have to answer to God one day for that." Considering some Scriptures that reference this (such as Romans 14:12, 1 Peter 4:5, and Matthew 12:36), that talk about each of us giving an account of our life to God, what does this mean for a Christian covered in the blood of Christ and forgiven and presented flawless  before God our Father only because of Christ's sacrifice; although in our daily struggles we each fail and could have that original statement said about each of us as Christians?

The certainty of the final judgment is a clear theme throughout Scripture. Popular wisdom states
only two things are certain: death and taxes. However, the Bible’s two certainties differ slightly:
“It is appointed for men to die once and after this comes judgment” (Heb 9:27). We have God’s
Word on it, from both the Old and New Testaments. “For God will bring every act to judgment,
everything which is hidden, whether it is good or evil” (Eccl 12:14; see Ps 96:13). The
resurrection of Jesus Christ confirms this judgment: God “has fixed a day in which He will judge
the world in righteousness through a Man whom He has appointed, having furnished proof to all
men by raising Him from the dead” (Acts 17:31). The concept of “eternal judgment” is a
foundational teaching of the Christian faith (Heb 6:1-2).

The truth that we will be judged based on our works is taught throughout Scripture. For example,
Jer 17:10 states, “I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, even to give to each man according
to his ways, according to the results of his deeds.” Jesus says in Matt 16:27, “For the Son of Man
is going to come in the glory of His Father and with His angels, and will then repay every man
according to his deeds.” He declares in Rev 22:12, “Behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward
is with Me, to render to every man according to what he has done.” It is clear from 2 Cor 5:10
that this applies to both the saved and the unsaved alike: “For we must all appear before the
judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may be recompensed for his deeds in the body,
according to what he has done, whether good or bad.”

One reason for revealing all our deeds on the day of judgment is to show whether or not faith that
justifies us is present. Such an examination is not necessary for God’s sake, but it will be carried
out to demonstrate that God’s judgment is fair and impartial, showing that he is no “respecter of
persons” (Acts 10:34-35; Rom 2:6,11; Eph 6:8-9; Col 3:25; 1 Pet 1:17).

A close look at the judgment scene in Rev 20:11-15 shows that there is no conflict between
justification by faith and judgment based on works. This passage states:

“Then I saw a great white throne and Him who sat upon it, from whose presence earth and heaven
fled away, and no place was found for them. And I saw the dead, the great and the small, standing
before the throne, and books were opened; and another book was opened, which is the book of
life; and the dead were judged from the things which were written in the books, according to their
deeds. And the sea gave up the dead which were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead
which were in them; and they were judged, every one of them according to their deeds. Then
death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire. And
if anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.”

This passage suggests that there will be two stages in the final judgment. The first involves a
judgment based on “the books," which likely records all of people's deeds. The second involves a
judgment based on “the book of life” (v. 12). When John says “the books were opened,” it refers
either to the records of every person's actions or to the standard by which these actions are
judged. In either case, judgment by “the books" involves assessing deeds and applies to everyone
(vv. 12-13). However, this deeds-based judgment is not the final word.

Instead, the ultimate decision about each person’s destiny depends on judgment according to “the
book of life,” specifically, the Lamb’s book of life (Rev 13:8; 21:27). The idea seems to be that,
after the initial judgment, based on works, no one is found worthy of heaven. But when the
Lamb’s book of life is checked, it’s found that some have trusted in God's grace rather than
their own works; these are the ones admitted into heaven—not because of their deeds, but
because of the blood of the Lamb. As it says, "if anyone’s name was not found written in the
book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire” (v. 15). Ultimately, this determines who will be
in heaven and who will be in hell. Full disclosure of our works at the threshold of heaven makes
it clear that our eternal salvation is solely due to God’s grace and mercy, and through the
blood of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. God’s mercy is ultimately glorified, and we will
enter heaven with hearts full of gratitude and praise for our Redeemer.

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I heard a commentator say modern Israel still operates on the tribal system. Is it their government? Or is that just for Jews? Just Believers? Or did I misunderstand what the commentator was saying?

Israel does not have a tribal government system today. It is a parliamentary democracy with
separate executive, legislative, and judicial branches. However, some political commentators
refer to the intense social divisions influencing the country's multi-party coalition system as
"tribal politics."

The concept of "tribal politics"
The term "tribal politics" refers to a society divided by major ethnic, religious, and cultural
differences. Political parties often form along these lines, representing specific groups or "tribes"
within Israeli society. These "tribes" include: 
ï‚· Secular Jews
ï‚· Religious Zionists
ï‚· Ultra-Orthodox Jews (Haredim)
ï‚· Sephardic and Ashkenazi Jews
ï‚· Arab citizens of Israel
After an election, representatives from these different groups must negotiate to form a ruling
coalition. This can lead to political instability and ongoing negotiations, as smaller parties may
wield disproportionate power during coalition-building. 

Israel's current democratic government structure:
ï‚· System of government: Israel is a unitary parliamentary republic, with its government
based on a series of "Basic Laws" that serve as a substitute for a formal constitution.
ï‚· Branches of government:
o Legislative: The Knesset is a single-chamber parliament with 120 members
elected through a proportional representation system.
o Executive: The government, or cabinet, is led by the Prime Minister. The Prime
Minister is usually the leader of the largest party in the ruling coalition.
o Judicial: An independent judiciary that includes both secular and religious courts.
ï‚· Electoral system: Israel's proportional representation system, combined with a multi-party
landscape, makes it very hard for any single party to win a majority. As a result, ruling
coalitions are always formed from multiple parties.
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When we die, do we go straight to heaven? Or do we stay “asleep” in the grave? Is judgement immediate or later?

All Christians look forward to “going to heaven”; this is one of the main things that make
physical death bearable. It is a main element in our “blessed hope” (Titus 2:13). Jesus, referring
to heaven, said, "I go to prepare a place for you" (Jn. 14:3). Those who inhabit heaven will have
an unbelievably wonderful existence. Our bodies will be different, but they nevertheless will be
real (1 Cor. 15:42-44,50; 1 Jn. 3:2).

Abraham traveled in a strange land, but "looked for a city which hath foundations, whose
builder and maker is God" (Heb. 11:10). Jesus told his disciples to "rejoice because your names
are written in heaven" (Lk. 10: 17-20). The Christian's greatest hope is being home with God.
What a joy it is to know that, if we are faithful, one day heaven will be our home. In the words of
the chorus of that old gospel song: "When the saved get to heaven, what a day of rejoicing that
will be! When the saved see Jesus, they will sing and shout the victory."

But what does it mean to go to heaven? Do we go to heaven when we die? The answer actually
depends on what is meant by the word “heaven.” The word occurs hundreds of times in the
Bible, and it is used in several different ways.

The word “heaven” often refers to that part of the visible universe that is not the earth. The
words “heaven” and “earth” are frequently combined to represent the entire universe, “In the
beginning God created the heavens and the earth” (Gen. 1:1; see Ex. 20:11; Ps. 115:15; Isa. 42:5;
Matt. 5:18; Heb. 1:10: Rev. 10:6). Since from our earthly perspective the rest of the universe
always seems to be above our heads, in the Bible heaven is often used for any aspect of the
universe that is above us or overhead. It refers to the air where birds fly (Gen. 1:20; Matt. 6:26;
8:20). It refers to the atmosphere where clouds exist (Ps. 147:8) and where comes rain, snow,
and hail (Josh. 10:11; Deut. 11:11,17; Isa. 55:10; Acts 14:17). It also refers to the sky as such, the
firmament or expanse where the heavenly bodies are located (Gen 1:8,14-17; 26:4; Ps 19:1;
33:6; Matt. 16:2-3; Acts 2:5; Col. 1:23). In this sense of heaven, Christ will appear in the heavens,
i.e., in the sky, when He returns (Matt, 24:29-31; 26:64; Acts 1:1-11; Rev. 6:13-14).

The term “heaven” is also used in what is best called a theological sense, because of its
connection with God. God and heaven are so closely related that heaven in this theological
sense may best be defined as “wherever God is,” or “the dwelling place of God.” In fact, when
the Bible uses the word in this theological sense, it refers to two different heavens that
presently exist.

One heaven is the divine dimension itself. In this sense heaven is not only a place where God
dwells but is actually the equivalent of God. Because of this identity, scripture uses the phrases
“kingdom of God” and “kingdom of heaven” interchangeably. God is “the God of heaven” (Ezra
1:2; Neh. 1:4-5). We can speak of our Father who is “in heaven” (Matt. 5:16,45; 6:1,9; 7:11,21).
In this sense God looks upon us “from heaven” (Deut. 26:15; Ps. 14:2; 33:13; Isa. 63:10); He
hears “from heaven” (1 Kgs. 8:30; 2 Chr. 7:14); He speaks “from heaven” (Matt. 3:17; John
12:28); He gives signs “from heaven” (Matt. 16:1; Luke 11:16). Also, this is the sense in which at
His first coming Christ “descended from heaven” (John 3:13; see 3:31; 6:38,41-42,50-51,58).

The Bible also describes a second theological sense of heaven as the divine throne room located
in the invisible universe, in the spiritual universe where angels’ dwell. This is the sense in which
angels are “in heaven” (Matt. 22:30; 24:36; Rev 5:13). This is why they come “from heaven”
when they visit our universe; God sends them to us from His presence as messengers (Matt.
28:2; Luke 22:43; Rev. 20:1). This is the place to which they return when they go back “into
heaven” (Luke 2:15). This is the heaven John entered after he saw “a door standing open in
heaven” and was invited to go through it (Rev. 4:1). He saw immediately that “a throne was
standing in heaven; and One was sitting on the throne” (Rev. 4:2). This was God Himself (Ps.
11:4; Matt 5:34; 23:22) in the spiritual manner by which He permanently manifests Himself to
the angelic world. This is why Jesus says that the “angels in heaven continually see the face of
My Father who is in heaven” (Matt. 18:10). Because it is located in a part of the spiritual world,
His throne room is a place within that universe. This place is called heaven, precisely because
God’s presence is there. In this sense it is His “abode.” This is the “heaven” that Jesus entered
when He was received or carried “up into heaven” (Mark 16:19; Luke 24:51; see Acts 1:11). At
the present time, in His glorified human body, Jesus is seated in this heaven upon the heavenly
throne at God’s own right hand (Acts 2:34; 3:21; 7:56; Eph. 6:9; Heb. 8:1; 9:24; 1 Pet. 3:22). This
is also the heaven from which He will return at the time following His second coming (1 Thess.
1:10; 4:16; 2 Thess. 1:7).

To which heaven do we go? Obviously, we do not go to the cosmological heaven, the one filled
with stars and clouds. Nor do we go to the first theological heaven, the divine dimension itself.
Heaven in this sense is simply not accessible to created beings, not even to angels. This divine
dimension is even more than a place, it is God Himself in His uncreated, invisible, immortal
glory.

This leaves the second theological heaven, the divine throne room located in the created
invisible universe. When we die, our bodies go into the grave, and our spirits/souls will be
transported into this spiritual heaven, to be in the presence of God until the time of Christ’s
second coming. This heaven to which we go when we die is indeed the heaven where God is
seated on His throne and surrounded by angels. The Bible also calls it paradise (Luke 23:43),
where the Jews thought of themselves as being within Abraham’s bosom (Luke 16:22) and
Christians expect to bide their pre-judgment time in the presence of the Lord Jesus (2
Corinthians 5:6-8; Philippians 1:23). Paul described this paradise of the soul as "the third
heaven" (2 Cor. 12:2-4). In other words, the "third heaven" refers to a place distinct from the
atmospheric and the celestial heavens.

This temporary place of waiting is the same destination for both those Old Testament saints
who died before Christ’s death, resurrection, and ascension, and those Christian saints who die
afterwards. The souls of Old Testament saints entered this heaven as soon as they died; they
simply did not experience the presence of Christ in that place until his ascension and
enthronement. For these pre-Christian saints, existing in “Abraham’s bosom” would have
seemed to be the best of glory and bliss (Luke 16:22, Col. 1:16). Thus, in this sense, the soul of
every saved person has entered or will enter this angelic heaven at the moment of death, to
await the end of this present age. This heaven to which we go at the moment of death is angelic
heaven, described by John in Revelation 4-5. Many have already been there for a long time, and
there we will also be in the presence of Jesus, in comfort and peace, until the time for the
second coming of Jesus.

When the Father initiates the grand event of Christ’s second coming, Jesus will arise from His
place on the throne and will pass through the dimensional barrier that separates the invisible
realm of angels from the visible world we inhabit. He will take with Him His holy angels as well
as the spirits/souls of the saved who have been patiently waiting for this moment. This is the
time when the dead in Christ receive their new glorified bodies, and the living saints on earth
are transformed into a glorified body without having to experience physical death; 1 Thes. 4:14.
Then in their new bodies, they are all taken back into the heavenly throne room for the event
called the Final Judgment. This Final Judgement will include both the saved and the unsaved.

While this is taking place, the old physical universe is being replaced by the new heavens and
new earth as described in 2 Peter 3:8-13 and prophesied in Isa. 65:17-25. Once Final Judgment
Day has been completed, the souls who rejected God are consigned to hell clothed in their
replacement, non-glorified, bodies. There they will spend eternity away from the presence of
God. The souls/spirits of the saved, clothed in their new glorified bodies, (I Cor. 15:42-44) are
taken to their eternal dwelling place, the new earth, surrounded by the new heavens. There
they shall live eternally in the presence of the glorified Christ, and Almighty God! (Revelation 21
and 22.)

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Recently, a friend who hid their true gender from me for a year before telling they are transgendered, has now told me they are switching to the opposite of what they were born biologically. Is there a specific way to respond to this according to the Bible? It seems now days the responses are “accept them or shun them”. How do I/we do better?

As he did in the very beginning of time, Satan is tempting the world with lies veiled
in partial truths. With the rise of homosexuality, which is being redefined as natural, inborn, and
created by God, gender identity issues have followed suit. Our entire country, primarily through
mass media, political movements, and liberal new laws, is being mis-guided into the
deconstruction of God’s original design for human nature.

Other than spiritual issues, is there anything more basic to human existence other than gender.
But, the forces of this world are perpetrating a mass campaign to make certain we believe that
gender changes and transgender ideology are not just accepted, but celebrated as authentic,
healthy, and wonderful expressions of normal human identity and behavior.

There are other signals that a massive attempt to move humanity “forward” is well on the way.
Large activist campaigns working in universities, grade schools, and local communities that are
engaged in creating ordinances and state laws that demand transgender acceptance. 
Transgendered children and adults are allowed to use restrooms in a growing number of states
that reflect the gender they “identify” with and not with the sex of their birth. Gay and
Transgender people believe they were born this way, and yet there is no scientific genetic
evidence that proves this to be true.

The finest and most perfect principles that shine a bright light on this issue are right there in the
beginning of Genesis and revisited by Christ Himself in Matthew 19:4-5. God made us to be male
and female. That should be the end of the argument!

However, there are several key protests that gender activists express to battle those who stand
up for the biblically based design of gender and sexuality. Here are their key points: “I was born
this way and can’t change.” “You Christians are hateful, self-righteous bigots for not letting me
be who I am.” “Being transgender is all about love and being who I truly am.” “Our rights are
guaranteed by the Constitution.”

These issues are affecting the church and creating division. These issues are indeed taking place
within our members. The good news is, that with some caring compassion and sharing God’s
word, these issues can be resolved. The church can be emboldened to help those who are in
such painful need of compassion.

Compassion? Yes! The mind of Christ is Truth and Love incarnate. It will take this mindset to
help those who are in need, just like we serve those in the church with other difficulties. So how
then do we work to save or build up those who are dealing with these issues?

It is ultimately the power of Truth and compassion that can pave the path to freedom; first
spiritual healing to receive God’s unfathomable grace, then experiencing the resolution of the
deep causes of these issues, which may require professional Christian counseling.

As with the world, so it is with the church—this is not a new thing. New Testament writers such
as Paul and Peter dealt with and warned churches and Christians about sexual impurities (2 Cor.
12:21; 1 Pet. 4:1-3).

God did not create mankind for sexual impurities; He created us male and female and said,
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall
become one flesh” (Gen. 2:24). “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but
fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (Heb. 13:4).

Furthermore, God did not “call” Christians “unto uncleanness but unto holiness” (1 Thess. 4:7).
Lewdness, fornication, adultery, homosexuality, and such like are condemned over and over in
God’s Word: “Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in
lewdness and lust...” (Rom. 13:13); “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the
kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor
homosexuals, nor sodomites ... will inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Cor. 6:9-10); “Now the works
of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness... and the like;
of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such
things will not inherit the kingdom of God” (Gal. 5:19-21); “Therefore put to death your
members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire...Because of
these things the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience” (Col. 3:5-6).

Those who practice these things are either ignorant of or willingly rebel against the will and
wisdom of the Almighty God! With most, especially those who are members of the church, they
sin presumptuously! “The body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for
the body” (1 Cor. 6:13). This ungodly attitude and conduct toward sexual impurity are not
benign; the consequences of this mind-set and behavior can be spiritually and physically
devastating. The bitter fruits of fornication, adultery, and homosexuality, transgenderism,
include guilt, shame, diseases, and broken homes.

Additionally, when members of the body of Christ participate in these wrongs it gives the
enemies of Christ an opportunity to blaspheme God (2 Sam. 12:14); it blurs the distinction
between righteousness and unrighteousness in the eyes of the world. Christians are supposed to
be the light of the world and the salt of the earth, but salt that has lost its savor is not fit for the
Master’s use (Matt. 5:12-13; 2 Tim. 2:21). By far, the gravest consequence for all (those of the
world and those in the church) will be that souls are lost! See Romans 6:23.

We need to resolve to uphold, teach, and practice sexual purity and call to repentance those
who engage in and embrace the opposite. Man needs to “fear God and keep His
commandments” (Eccl. 12:13)— not corrupt his mind or body. To “fear God” is “the beginning
of wisdom” (Psa. 111:10) and the “whole duty” of man (Eccl. 12:13, KJV). While the “fear of
God” includes reverence for God and His Word, we should know that this reverence takes into
account the surety of God’s wrath upon the disobedient (Eph. 5:5-6). Immediately upon stating
the “whole duty” of man, the writer of Ecclesiastes states, “For God will bring every work into
judgment, Including every secret thing, whether good or evil” (Eccl. 12:14).

However, we must not forget to make evident the love of God and the hope He holds forth in
Christ for all who have sinned in these matters. In Christ there is forgiveness. Paul told the
Corinthians: “Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites
... will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you
were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our
God” (1 Cor. 6:9-11).

To God be the glory! May we present our bodies to Him as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable
to Him (Rom. 12:1).
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Satan rebelled against God. Where did that first evil come from?

In Revelation 12:9 we read of satan being “thrown down to earth, and his angels were thrown down with
him.” So, we find glimpses of both his beginnings and his followers and of their involvement with the rest
of creation. Satan is pictured here as having a new domain and that being the earth. In the Gospels Jesus
Himself refers to him as the “prince of this world,” and we find this repeated three times in John’s
Gospel, 12:31; 14:30, and 16:11.

To understand his “beginnings” or origin let us look at some of the names and titles, that often overlap
each other, given to the Evil One, beginning with the word “satan.” His titles describe his being, his
origin, his agenda, and his methods. References to him in the bible occur over two hundred times.

The most common name is satan which in the Old Testament is from a Hebrew word, satan, used 52
times. Its common meaning is an opponent or an adversary, and it is used for the devil in 1 Chronicles
21:1; Job 1:6ff. and Job 2:1ff.; and Zechariah 3:1-2. In the latter two instances satan is seen as “the
accuser” and in the first passage he is “the instigator of evil.”

In the New Testament the Greek word satanas is used 33 times. One reference is Matthew 12:26. Here
again the connotation is that of an accuser. The Greek word, diabolos, is used 35 times with the general
meaning and connotation of a slanderer, one who deliberately puts down somebody else. These are the
two most common words for the Evil One in the New Testament, though other names are also
mentioned.

It is generally accepted that satan was once an angel of high standing in heaven, a created being of
splendor and beauty who rebelled against God together with his own followers and consequently was
thrown out of the realm of the presence of God. Two passages in the New Testament make this clear,
namely, 2 Peter 2:4 and Jude 6. Both references imply rebellion against God and a desire for usurping
God’s position and authority. 2nd Peter 2:4 specifies “angels who sinned” and Jude 6 mentions “angels
who did not keep their positions of authority but abandoned their own home”.

Two Old Testament passages are sometimes used in error to describe what happened in heaven when
satan and these angels sinned. One is from Isaiah 14:12-17, and the other is Ezekiel 28:12-19. The Isaiah
account has a direct reference to the King of Babylon and his downfall, and should not be used to identify
satan. Also, Ezekiel 28:12-19 refers to satan’s going against His Creator and God, subsequently being
thrown out of heaven. It is rather evident that the person being referred to is the Prince of Tyre and is
descriptive of Tyre’s eventual overthrow and we should not use this verse to identify satan.

God created the world with neither moral evil nor natural evil existing in it; everything was originally
“very good” (Gen1:31). However, He did create free will beings, both spiritual and human, for which
moral evil was a possibility. God wanted creatures who would love, serve, and glorify Him of their own
free choice and not by force, coercion or manipulation. The first and greatest commandment is that we
should love God with all our hearts and minds (Matt. 22:37). Freely chosen love is what God desires from
His creation. Giving His creatures free will was a necessary means to this end. The capacity to freely love
God also requires the capacity to hate and reject God. Therefore, God’s desire entailed a risk. God was
willing to risk the free choice of evil in order to have freely chosen love and worship. God is responsible
for the possibility of evil, but not its necessity or actuality. He made the free will creatures that had the
potential for choosing evil.

Sadly, God’s creatures have used their free will to commit sin. And as a consequence of this free choice,
all the evil that exists in the world has come into existence, the physical as well as the moral.
Understanding moral evil as the result of free will is much easier to grasp than physical evil. Sadly, under
the permissive will of God, created beings (satan and angels), and human beings (Adam and Eve)
exercised their free will capacity to reject God, and moral evil became a reality.

Angels exercising their Creator given free will introduced evil and sin to the spiritual realm. As a result,
they were banned from it. In a similar manner, the introduction of sin into the pristine, “very good”
world by the first couple instilled an element of corruption into the entire cosmos that will remain until
the second coming of Jesus. As a result, they too were banned from their heaven-like paradise. Bodily
disease and death, as well as a breakdown in the intended harmony between man and the physical
world, are all a part of this cosmic curse. (Gen 3:16-19, Romans 5:12-19, 8:18-22). Evil has been
unnaturally incorporated into the very fabric of the universe. This is the explanation for most of the
individual instances of suffering that occurs around us. All because sin has distorted nature, and the sin
happened through the free will decision of our first parents.

Thus, we see that evil in both forms (moral and physical) is the consequence of the free will choices of
men and some angels (satan etc.) to commit sin against God. It is not a necessary element of God’s
creation. But given the existence of free will beings, it was from the very beginning a possibility. As it
turned out, it was a possibility that sadly became a reality!

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Is there a good way to respond to or combat the modern university mindset that is growing amongst us today? How might parents prevent it in the lives of their sons and daughters? In our friends? Are there any Bible verses that you might suggest to someone with that mindset that they read to possibly have them question their motives/beliefs?

When you use the term, “modern university mindset”, we are assuming that your concerns
center around the Biblical and moral liberalism currently being professed in many of our
Christian universities, or even perhaps all universities.

How did it all get started? It started with some who believed it was alright to do just a few things
that were unauthorized by God. Often, such things were motivated by the need for money and
prestige. When those seemingly innocent innovations were accepted, a few more were
introduced. And so, it progressed with one innovation followed by another until these
Professors and Administrators lost any concept of proving all things and holding fast that which
is good (I Thess. 5:21). They have followed the downward spiral of apostasy plainly declared in
God's Word (2 Tim. 3:13; 3:5; Acts 20:29-30; 2 Thess. 2:10-12). The have sown the wind and
they are reaping the whirlwind (Hos. 8:7). Let us always be vigilant against the very start of
departing from God’s guidance. Watering down God’s word must be seen for what it is; a deadly
cancer which will spread through every part of the body (or university) until it destroys any
semblance of life remaining (2 Tim. 2:16-18).

Liberalism tends to drift away from established authority. It sees little or no danger in departure,
and tends to put confidence in the reasoning of good men, popular movements, and well-
intended aspirations rather than in the absolute authority of God's word. There is a tendency to
walk by sight rather than by faith. It matters not that a position or practice may be on shaky
ground morally, ethically or scripturally. The battle cry of the liberal is: "the end justifies the
means." Truth, principle, or being right is not the main concern of the liberal ... results are. Far
to often, those supporting universities, concentrate on ungodly material gains rather than the
welfare of the student.

Liberalism is deceptive. Liberalism reasons that the apparent goodness of a work will suffice as
authority for that work. The final test in liberal thought is "how will this help/hurt man?" For this
reason, liberalism tends to be subjective in its faith. The fervor to do godly things in godly ways,
gives way to doing good things in any way that seems best to man. In the long run liberalism
worships and serves the creature rather than the Creator. This is an especially dangerous
situation within Christian universities.

Liberalism is dangerous because its basic expression is one of unfaithfulness. God's word is
faithful and must be held fast (Tit. 1:9). However, liberalism considers additional criteria for its
justification. In Numbers 22:18; 24:13 Balaam twice tells King Balak that he cannot go beyond
the word of the Lord (this is the correct and scriptural attitude) . . . however we later discover
that Balaam relents from this position and counsels Israel to trespass against the Lord (for
personal gain, Num. 31:16; 2 Pet. 2:15). The basic problem Balaam had was that what he
wanted to do was not approved of within the will of God, so he had to go beyond the word of
God to find justification for his actions. This is liberalism as it is driven by human rational.

In Numbers 20 when Moses was instructed by the Lord to speak to the rock, instead he struck
the rock and consequently was not allowed to enter into the promised land. We discover in
verse 10 that Moses considered himself the main character in this episode and thus acted upon
his own judgment of right and wrong concerning the circumstance. This too is liberalism.

The liberal sees the personal individual as the yardstick by which every situation is finally
discerned. The liberal tends to treat the basics of the gospel as peripherals of judgment and
opinion. Thus ultimately, liberals cannot agree among themselves except it be to oppose all who
do not agree with them.

In the story of the twelve spies, Joshua and Caleb are the heroes because they put their trust in
what God said, and determined to follow it regardless of personal feelings . . . this is neither
liberal nor conservative, but scriptural. One must never be blind to dangers, but neither must
the child of God be afraid to do anything scriptural. "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but
of power and of love and of a sound mind" (2 Tim. 1:7). So many of our universities are afraid to
do anything which even hints of God’s involvement!

Liberal or conservative? Why not just be faithful; perfectly united in our collective efforts to
follow the pure gospel of Christ, and liberal in our love toward one another as concerning our
personal opinions and privately held judgments? Seems simple enough if we genuinely have the
spirit of Christ. After all, it is the good and faithful servant who will enter into the joy of the Lord
(Matt. 25:21) . . . not the liberal or conservative.

Liberal universities usually have little use for the word of God. They do not care to be bound by
its commands and examples but rather to follow their own inclinations. Indeed, the spirit of
liberalism fosters rebellion against anyone or anything that would tend to limit one in thought
or action. This includes God, for He definitely has limited us in our conduct before Him.

Jeremiah, the prophet of God, said in Jer. 10:23: "O Lord, I know that the way of man is not in
himself: it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps." Is it not far more reasonable to
conclude that God, being who He is and what He is, and man being what he is, can and should
tell man what he needs to do in order to save his soul? Liberalism would actually reverse the
positions of God and man, making man the judge and God the judged.

Liberalism seems to have a spirit of compromise rather than a spirit of warfare against sin and
error (2 Cor. 10:3-5). Many liberal Christian Universities fail in exposing false doctrines, false
religions, and false teachers by name as was done in Bible days (Matt. 16:12; 2 Tim. 2:16-18).
Some try to teach a “positive” gospel about the need to live a pure and godly life, but they do
not openly fight against worldliness and expose sinfulness (Gal. 5:19-21). This “positive”
approach gradually allows sin and error to work among God’s people. Less and less direct
teaching is done on Bible principles. Fewer and fewer warnings are given against more and more
forms of sin and error. The university (and eventually the student) becomes weaker, softer, and
more open to false teaching and sinful conduct in many forms. Such colleges and universities
will gradually lose more and more distinctive marks of Christianity and become more and more
like the world.

What can parents do?
 
1. Accept the fact that the primary responsibility for your child's education rests on you the
parent, not on the government (Eph. 6:4; Deut. 6:49; Prov. 22:6). You must be
responsible, even when they are at school. If your child is lost because of the influence of
the schools, while you did little or nothing about it, God will hold you accountable.
2. Inform yourself about the kinds of teachings that are in the universities.
3. Get to know the Professors. Work with the administrators to influence what teachers
your children have.
4. Read textbooks, especially insist on seeing Professor’s expectations.
5. Diligently teach your children the truth at home to arm them against false teaching.

Teachers and Administrators who embrace this liberal spirit of compromise are highly offended
and embarrassed by strong gospel teaching which deals directly with sin, error, and false
teachers. They become agitated against and alienated from Christian principles. In this way,
Satan builds a wall which protects the liberal-minded university from practicing the full truth of
God. Those who “will not endure sound doctrine” turn to teachers who will tickle their ears with
smooth, sweet, soft teaching; just as Paul warned in 2 Timothy 4:1-5. 

In order to avoid liberalism in our schools and in fact, in our lives, we must preach “all the
counsel of God” and “fight the good fight of faith” against every form of sin and error (Acts
20:27; 1 Tim. 6:12).

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When do you get the Holy Spirit?

Acts 2:38-39 teaches, “And Peter said to them, “Repent, and let each of you be baptized in the
name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy
Spirit. For the promise is for you and your children, and for all who are far off, as many as
the Lord our God shall call to Himself.” We commonly use the term “indwelling” of the Holy
Spirit to represent this promise.

This wonderful promise in the book of Acts clearly tells us that when a believing, repentant
sinner is baptized (immersed in water), they receive the Holy Spirit as a free gift. This simply
means that in the moment of Christian baptism the third person of the Trinity, God the Holy
Spirit Himself, enters into our lives in a special way and remains there, using each individual
Christian as a dwelling place, for as long as we continue to trust in the saving power and blood
of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!

​We can expect and believe the reality of the indwelling of the Holy Spirit because the Bible
teaches it, using this very terminology. The inwardness of the Spirit’s presence was part of the
pre-Pentecostal promise. It was prophesied in Ezekiel 36:27, “I will put My Spirit within you.” In
John 7:38, Jesus said the Spirit would be like “rivers of living water” flowing up from the
believer’s innermost being. In his writings the Apostle Paul uses the language of indwelling when
describing how the Holy Spirit is related to us. In 1 Cor 6:19 he says, “Or do you not know that
your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you
are not your own?” The Greek word for “temple” is naos, which means a temple, shrine, or
sanctuary associated with the divine presence. The Holy Spirit of God is literally “in you,” says
Paul, the Spirit “whom you have from God,” the one whom you received as a gift from God in
your Christian baptism. What a wonderful promise!

The Apostle Paul assures us that when we received the Holy Spirit, He began to use our body as
His dwelling place. Paul uses similar language in Romans 8:9-11. “You are not in the flesh but in
the Spirit,” he says, “if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you” (v. 9). The verb for “dwells” is
oikeo, which is related to the noun oikos, meaning “house.” To say that the Spirit of God “dwells
in you” simply means that He treats our body as His house, His residence, His dwelling place.

The Holy Spirit is not just paying us a visit; He has moved in to stay! Our body is where He lives,
and it all began at the moment of our Christian baptism! Praise!
 

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Should we as a Christian Church celebrate Halloween?

Whether or not Christians should celebrate Halloween can be a very controversial topic. Some Christians
celebrate Halloween simply by dressing up in a costume and having fun, seeing it as innocent and harmless.
Other Christians are equally convinced that Halloween is a satanic holiday established to worship evil spirits
and promote darkness and wickedness. So, who is right? Is it possible for Christians to celebrate Halloween
without compromising their faith?

Halloween, no matter how commercialized, contains pagan aspects. As innocent as it may seem to some, it is
not something to be taken lightly. Christians tend to have various ways to celebrate or not to celebrate
Halloween. For some, it means having an “alternative” Harvest Party. For others, it is staying away from the
ghosts, witches, goblins, etc., and wearing fun costumes such as little princesses, clowns, cowboys, super-
heroes, etc. Some choose not to do anything, perhaps deciding to keep themselves in their house with the
lights off. Since scripture does not mention Halloween, because of our freedom as Christians, we are at liberty
to decide how to act.

Although scripture does not speak at all about Halloween, it does give us some principles on which we can
make a decision. There are some things associated with Halloween in which Christians should not participate:
(1) Abusive and unkind activities. (2) Destruction of other's property. (3) Any celebration of death or pagan
acts. (4) Any celebration of "All Saints" (All Hallows') day by praying to the dead. Christians should not have
any part in these acts, (Matt. 7:12; Col. 3:17; 2 John. 9).

In Romans 14, Paul argues the general proposition that there will be different levels of knowledge among
believers and that, to a certain extent, these must be accommodated for the sake of Christian unity. For
example, some, out of conviction, choose not to eat meats; others see nothing wrong with such a practice.
This Biblical principal is certainly applicable to the celebration of Halloween.

No Bible principle is violated by costume parties, children gathering candy, participating in a harvest party or
carving a pumpkin, etc. If no Bible principle is violated, there is no sin involved (Rom. 4:15). Obviously, any
who would violate their conscience by participating in any type of Halloween activity should abstain. To
violate one's conscience is a sin (Rom. 14:23).

There is nothing evil about dressing up as a princess or cowboy and going around the neighborhood receiving
treats. Are there things about Halloween that are anti-Christian and should be avoided? Absolutely, as was
mentioned earlier! If parents and/or church leaders are going to allow children to participate in Halloween
activities, they should be sure to keep them from getting involved in any darker pagan aspects of the day. If
Christians are going to take part in Halloween activities, their attitude, dress, and most importantly, their
behavior should reflect a redeemed life. (Phil 1:27).

Each October 31st , our church usually conducts a Fall “Sweet Treat” harvest festival and incorporates
costumes, encouraging a scriptural representation and environment. It is presented as a Halloween
alternative, so it cannot be confused as being a Halloween celebration. This spiritually focused activity brings
many adults and children into the church building who may not otherwise do so. Food, candy, and fun are
freely provided, all associated with a strong giving, sharing, and edifying theme. The decision is ultimately the
individual Christian’s responsibility to make. But as with all such things, we are to incorporate the principles
of Romans 14. We cannot allow our own convictions about any special day to cause division in the body of
Christ, nor can we use our freedom in Christ to cause others to stumble in their walk of faith. We are to do all
things as to the Lord and His glory!

Scripture in order as presented in the JCC answer:

Matt 7:12 “Therefore, however you want people to treat you, so treat them, for this is the Law and the
Prophets. “
Col 3:17 “And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through
Him to God the Father.”
2 John 9 “Anyone who goes too far and does not abide in the teaching of Christ, does not have God; the one
who abides in the teaching, he has both the Father and the Son.”
Romans 4:15 “for the Law brings about wrath, but where there is no law, neither is there violation.”
Romans 14:23 “But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and
whatever is not from faith is sin.”
Phil 1:27 “Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ; so that whether I come and
see you or remain absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving
together for the faith of the gospel. “

Romans 14 Key Points:
1. We Should Accept All Whom God Has Accepted (14:1–3)
2. We Answer to Our Lord and Not to Each Other (14:4–9)
3. Each of Us Will Be Judged by God (14:10–12)
4. We Must Sacrifice Our Liberty for the Sake of the Weak (14:13–15)
5. Do Not Allow What You Consider Good to Be Spoken of as Evil (14:16–18)
6. We Must Do Only Those Things Which Build Others Up (14:19–21)
7. Each Christian Must Be True to His Own Convictions (14:22–23)
 

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What if you forgive someone (family) but can’t forget. Is it okay to just cut them away from your life and walk away?

What does it mean for us as human beings to forgive other human beings who offend us, sin
against us, or do us wrong? Perhaps we should first ask, what does it mean for God to forgive
us? “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you”
(Ephesians 4:32, ESV). The first step in forgiveness is for the wronged person to have a forgiving
heart. It begins with the kind of person one is. In reference to God, Psalm 86:5 tells us that He is
"forgiving" or "ready to forgive." He is willing to forgive and wants to forgive; it is His nature to
forgive. This is an aspect of the loving side of God’s nature. It is simply who He is.

That must also be our nature! As creatures made in God’s image, we are supposed to have a
loving and forgiving nature. When we become Christians, the Spirit of God begins to dwell in us
for the purpose (among other things) of restoring that forgiving spirit within us. This is
something we should consciously be working on. When we are wronged, we must be prepared
to imitate God; we must be “ready to forgive.”

When an offense actually occurs, the offended person offers to forgive the offender. This is the
case with God. Because it is His nature to forgive, He offers to forgive us sinners. This is the
point of the gospel. The gospel’s good news is that God has done everything necessary to bring
about reconciliation between Himself and sinners. Forgiveness is like a gift that God offers to
sinners. Likewise, if we have suffered wrongdoing at the hand of a fellow human being, we must
offer our forgiveness to that person. Like God, we should take the initiative in attempting to
restore the relationship of peace and harmony. It is stated in the question that this has
occurred, but the offense cannot be forgotten.

We must ask ourselves, if we have truly forgiven as God forgives us, and yet we cannot forget, is
our forgiveness as God expects us to forgive? God teaches us that it is a heart issue as
mentioned above. It is sometimes more difficult to forget than to remember. But we must learn
to forget. Can our minds actually allow us to forget? The way God has made us, with that
internal filing system we call memory, it is doubtful we can fully forget even the things we want
to forget. Our minds are simply remarkable! So, because of this fact, forgetting in a technical
manner is secondary to forgetting in the same way the Apostle Paul does in 1 Cor 13:4-5: “Love
is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous, love does not brag, and is not arrogant, does not act
unbecomingly, it does not seek its own, is not provoked, and does not take into account a wrong
suffered.” We are to put the thing behind us, never to be brought up again, no matter what
happens in the future. This is the type of forgiveness God has for His creation. It is impossible for
God to technically forget our sins, but He has told us He has put them behind the cross, never to
be brought up or talked about again. We need to act in the same way.

Often, we pray, "Forgive our sins and remember them against us no more." Yet, we too often
say "I'll forgive, but I can't forget." Forgiveness is forgetfulness so far as ceasing to hold the
person guilty of the offense, never to be laid to their charge again. There is finality about
forgiveness when forgiveness is from the heart, and only such avails before God (Mat. 18:35).
Just as God's forgiveness of our sins heals the breach between Him and us, so our forgiveness of
the sins of another against us heals the breach and strives for unity.

Yes, forgetting is difficult. It is something shared with no other person. It is a solo flight! And all
the rewards are postponed until eternity. Forgetting requires the Christian to think correctly.
Our full focus must be on the Lord and not on humanity. Release the poison of all that
bitterness, let it gush out before God. Declare your desire to be free. It is one of the major
exams we must pass in living as authentic servants. By God’s grace it can happen!

Some people can never get over a slight by someone, or a wrong done them. The penitentiary is
full of people who could not forget a real or imagined wrong, either by an individual or society
as a whole. A man once said that one of the reasons he had never become a Christian was that
he could not forgive a wrong done him. One of the first recorded statements of the Lord was:
"But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." We
had better remember that no unforgiving person can have fellowship with a forgiving God. We
must understand that God’s understanding of genuine and complete forgiveness includes
forgetting the offense. Of course, as previously mentioned our minds are so complex that we
may never be able to physically/mentally forget, but we must forget in a manner in which we
put offenses behind us, never to be brought up again. Though Paul remembered the terrible
persecutions that he had inflicted upon God's people (1 Tim. 1:12-15), he could still "forget the
things that are behind" (Phil. 3:13), in the sense that he did not allow them to hinder his
faithfulness to Christ. There was no doubt in Paul's mind whether God had forgiven him. Neither
should there be any in our minds when we conform to the conditions God has revealed in our
forgiveness to others.

Yes, there is a difference between being forgiven and forgetting. Saul of Tarsus was forgiven of
his sins when he was baptized "to wash away" his sins (Acts 22:16), but he remembered his past
sins when he wrote Timothy (1 Tim. 1:13-15). In the Old Testament we read of David being
forgiven, yet he remembered his past sins. Nathan said, "God hath put away thy sin" (2 Sam.
12:13), but years later David wrote about his past sins (Psa. 32:1-5). The Apostle Peter was
pricked in the heart by the crowing of a rooster (Lk. 22:61,62), and obviously repented of his sin.
His life afterward shows clearly that he was aware of God's forgiveness, but no doubt the sound
of a rooster crowing sent pains through his heart for a long time after that event.

The Bible records many sins that God had forgiven and did not hold against the forgiven party.
However, God did remember them. If not, how did He inspire the writers to write about them?
Did God forgive the fornicator in Corinth, after he repented? In the second epistle to the
Corinthians, Paul said, “Sufficient for such a one is this punishment which was inflicted by the
majority, so that on the contrary you should rather forgive and comfort him, lest somehow such
a one be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. ” (2 Cor. 2:6,7). This clearly implies that God had
forgiven him, and that they were to do likewise, yet God "remembered" in the sense that He
inspired Paul to write about it. There is a difference between forgiving and forgetting, yet God
teaches that both are needed to complete the forgiveness process.

“Offenses will come,” said Jesus in Luke 17:1. So this tells us that none of us are beyond the
possibility of making mistakes as we live as mortal men in a sinful world. Sometimes offenses
may not be sinful, just hurtful. In either case, there must be a willingness to forgive, and the
other half of forgiveness must of necessity also include forgetting.

Forgiveness must not include tucking things away in a neat little package until something
triggers them, then pulling out all our hostility, piece by piece. To “forgive” is that quality of life
which says, “That’s all right, it is as though it never happened, I forgive you.”

Unfortunately, not to forget following forgiveness is to hold a grudge which will lead to our
seeking revenge. Sometimes this revenge is direct or indirect, but in either situation, it is not
what God expects of our true and genuine forgiveness efforts. Both forgiveness and forgetting
must be based upon love, grace, and empathy, following the example of exactly how God
forgives us. Pray about it, the more you pray, the more you will forget, and the more your
forgiveness will be what God expects!

God does not want us to walk away from or give up on any human, simply because we cannot
seem to forget a forgiven offense, especially our family. Godly forgiveness includes forgetting.
Let us all work to the end that we may be able to sing with David, "Behold, how good and how
pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!" (Psa. 133:1).

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I understand there is no such thing as a perfect Christian, but I find myself wanting and
struggling to live a more Christ-like life. I’d really like to hear what the bible says about the desire for relationships. How might we deal with the desire for love and not only the friendly like love? What I understand is it takes discipline and prayer but what else?

Our desire for physical love is a perfectly natural and even a God created/given trait of life. Jesus
said, "Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify the
Father which is in heaven." By doing good the Christian bears fruit which, to the people of the
world, is a shining light, radiating and reflecting the love of God. However, good work is not the
only way the Christian is made into a shining light. He is to "keep himself unspotted from the
world" (Jas. 1 :27), and to "abhor that which is evil and cleave to that which is good" (Rom.
12:9). Since the Christian is really not a light except as he reflects Christ, then any impurity in his
life will minimize that light.

We, as Christians, should be very concerned about our purity. It should be so precious to us that
we would protect it at all costs. Having been washed in the blood of the Lamb of God (1 Pet.
1:19) and our robes having become white as snow (Rev. 7;14), we should abstain from “all
appearance of evil” (1 Thess. 5:22). The Christians in Rome were told to “abhor that which is
evil; cleave to that which is good” (Rom. 12:9).

The Christian of today, like those who have gone before us, must have a devotion unpolluted
and unmixed with the world. The failure to keep oneself from defilement will result in a faith
that is weakened and a diluted devotion. James tells us to keep ourselves unspotted from the
world (Jas. 1:27). We must guard ourselves against the contaminations of the world, its pursuits,
ambitions and sinful pleasures. If we want to live with God eternally then our faithfulness should
be our first concern. It should be our priority in life.

The word “unspotted” means “without spot, blemish or stain.” We cannot allow the world to
splash us with its filth and pollution. The world can make us unclean (1 Jn. 5:19). “Friendship
with the world is enmity with God” (Jas. 4:4). In light of this, how meaningful are Peter’s words:
“but as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; because it
is written, be ye holy; for I am holy” (1 Pet. 1:15-16).

Would you go into a coal mine while you were wearing a white tuxedo? Certainly not! You
would give it wide berth. You would not even see how close you could get and stay clean. It
requires rare moral courage to resist evil, and to brave the contempt that could result from
living a worthy life (“wherein they think it strange that ye run not with them into the same
excess of riot, speaking evil of you,” I Pet. 4:4). God will take nothing less than a pure life (Jn.
17:15-16).

Some may ask, “How do I go about keeping myself pure and clean?” The answer is contained in
many references that have to do with our salvation. However, we will look at that of James 1:27
and see the importance of keeping ourselves undefiled with the world. The word “keep”
stresses the idea of practice and the word “unspotted” denotes being unstained. This same
word was used to describe Christ as a lamb for sacrifice (1 Pet. 1:19). This is obviously the
significance of Romans 12:1-2, that is, the offering of ourselves as a “living sacrifice.”

Perhaps purity is not the dearest thing in our lives because we have never experienced the joy
of the cleansing of the old man of sin (Rom. 6:6). Because all have sinned (Rom. 3:32), all men
need the defilements of sin removed. This is done by the blood of Christ (Rom. 5:8-9). The blood
is applied in baptism (Rom. 6:1-6), and even after walking in “newness of life,” His blood
continues to cleanse when we meet the conditions for forgiveness (1 Jn. 1:7-9). We must
purpose to keep ourselves in the love of God (Jude 21). This is the meaning of working out our
salvation and the purifying of our-selves (1 Pet. 1:22; Phil. 2:12).

Imagine the effects in this life of not allowing the demoralizing influence of the world to impact
our personal purity (Jas. 1:27)! Look at a couple of them: (1) For us personally, it demonstrates
that in view of the second coming of Jesus Christ we are diligent to be found by him spotless and
blameless (2 Pet. 3:14). (2) As far as others are concerned, we are trying to always be an
influence for good (Matt. 5:16). Negatively speaking, the unspotted life keeps one from
becoming a stumbling block (Tit. 2:7-8).

The primary reason is the failure of individuals within the world to develop right values and to
resist evil. To change the direction in which things are turning, we, ourselves, must be willing to
conform to the will of God. “Keep thyself pure” (1 Tim. 5:22). The challenge must be recognized
and accepted. Only then will our influence and that of the church affect our society for good.
“Neither yield ye yourselves as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin; but yield yourselves
unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of
righteousness unto God” (Rom. 6:13).

​God made mankind and He knew what would be best, and God made mankind with desires for
relationships There is nothing dirty about it; and nothing is unclean about it; there is nothing.
immoral about it; and we ought not to act like there is. But, just as God made mankind with
certain relationship desires, there are right and wrong ways to gratify these desires. God has
provided His written word as a wonderful guide for any type of relationships we might be
dealing with in our lives!
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Are evil spirits/demons actually fallen angels? Or are they spirits of evil people?

Colossians 1:16 tells us that in addition to the visible universe and no doubt prior to it, God
created a whole invisible company of angelic beings who existed in their own created invisible
universe. These were by nature pure spirit, and were intended to exist “outside” the sphere of
material creation, though they could interact with it. Their number was unimaginably great
according to Revelation 5:11; Hebrews 12:22. There were several varieties, including cherubim
and seraphim (Exodus 25:20; Ezekiel 1; Isaiah 6:2-6).

It seems there was a hierarchy within their ranks, with some being designated as “chief angels”
(i.e., archangels, such as Michael). The purpose of the angelic host was to serve God and carry
out His orders. The word “angel” means, simply, “messenger.” Many if not most of these
created angelic creatures have continued faithfully to serve their Creator.

However, at one point, by exercising their free-will as created beings, there was a fall or a
rebellion against God among the angels. The Bible speaks of angels that sinned and whose
eternal condemnation is sealed (2 Peter 2:4; see Jude 6). Who are these angels who sinned? The
principal one was no doubt Satan, who has been a murderer and a sinner “from the beginning”
(John 8:44; 1 John 3:8), or ever since the beginning of our material creation recorded in
Genesis 1. When Satan himself was first created he was good and was probably a higher-level
angel. We can believe this because of Jude 9 and Revelation 12:7, where Satan is paired in
combat with the archangel Michael. All the other angels who sinned were lower in rank than
Satan and have now become his own “angels” or “demonic messengers” (Matthew 25:41;
Revelation 12:7, 9). These fallen angels who now serve Satan are surely the demons of which
Scripture speaks.

Satan is called the ruler or prince of the demons (Matthew 9:34; 12:24). Demons are also called
“evil spirits” and “unclean spirits” (e.g., Mark 7:25-30; Luke 7:21). In considering the work of
demons, we can assume that their method and goals are the same as Satan’s, since they are his
angels and simply carry out his orders. Generally, Satan’s main goal is to defeat God’s plan and
purpose in whatever way possible. Satan tried to ruin this plan at the very beginning by dragging
Adam and Eve into sin (Genesis 3). But our all-knowing God had already arranged a solution to
this problem, namely, redemption through His Son, Jesus.
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Satan’s hope is to prevent individuals from receiving this redemption found in Jesus. Each and
every individual is the object of Satan’s attack, as the devil “prowls around like a roaring lion,
seeking someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). Here is where Satan’s angels, the demons, enter the
picture. Contrary to a popular misconception, Satan is not omnipresent: he cannot be
everywhere at the same time; sometimes we forget that Satan is a created being with a free-
will. He deploys his troops (the demons) throughout the world, and they carry out his work and
purposes in his name.

Specifically, how do Satan and his angels (the demons) hope to accomplish their work? The
devil’s main tactic is deception. He is called “the father of lies” (John 8:44) who “deceives the
whole world” (Revelation 12:9). He works through disguises (2 Corinthians 11:14), schemes
(Ephesians 6:11), and snares (2 Timothy 2:26). He and his demons are explicitly identified as the
source of false teaching (1 Timothy 4:1). He is even permitted to accompany his falsehoods with
“all power and signs and false wonders” (2 Thessalonians 2:9). See also Revelation 16:14;
Matthew 7:21-23; 24:24.

Satan being bound or limited, as a result of the death and resurrection of Christ is the proper
understanding of Revelation 20:1-3 and Matthew 12:25-29. But this certainly does not halt all
Satanic and demonic activities. Our struggle is still “against the rulers, against the powers,
against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness” (Ephesians
6:12). That Satan has been bound means that his power has been limited, and this limitation is
specified in Revelation 20:3: “so that he would not deceive the nations any longer.” Satan’s
power to deceive and entrap whole nations has been limited by the spread of the gospel of
God’s truth. Anyone who hears, believes, and obeys this truth is set free from Satan’s power in
every way being under the protection of Jesus. Through the power of Christ, we can escape
Satan’s grip. But it is not automatic; one must consciously accept the truth and choose to be
rescued from the devil. On the other hand, those who ignore or reject God’s truth and grace
subject themselves to every snare of Satan and his demons.

We are at war: be not deceived. But we are on the Victor’s side: be not afraid. To be safe and
victorious, follow these commands of Ephesians 6: “Be strong in the Lord” (v. 10). “Put on the
full armor of God” (v. 11). “Stand firm” (v. 14). “Be on the alert” (v. 18).  Rest in God’s promise in
James 4:7, “Resist the devil and he will flee from you.” The decisive battle in spiritual warfare
has already been fought—and won—by Jesus Christ (Revelation 12:7-9; 20:1-3; Colossians 2:15).
He has left us with every necessary resource for sharing this victory with Him, including His
powerful Word.

The good news for us is that, every time a demon came up against Jesus in the Gospels, it was
the demon who lost. As 1 John 4:4 tells us, “You, dear children, are from God and have
overcome them (demons), because the One who is in you is greater than the one who is in the
world.” Praise Him!!

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“Is Bigfoot a Nephilim?”

I will begin with the verses mentioning Nephilim, Genesis 6:1-6 and Numbers 13:30-33.
 
Genesis 6:1–6
 
“Now it came about, when men began to multiply on the face of the land, and daughters were born to them, that the sons of God (bene Elohim) saw that the daughters of men were beautiful; and they took wives for themselves, whomever they chose. Then the LORD said, “My Spirit shall not strive with man forever, because he also is flesh; nevertheless his days shall be one hundred and twenty years.” 
 
The Nephilim were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God (bene Elohim) came in to the daughters of men, and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown. Then the LORD saw that the wickedness of man was great on the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually”.
 
Numbers 13:30–33
 
“Then Caleb quieted the people before Moses and said, “We should by all means go up and take possession of it, for we will surely overcome it.” But the men who had gone up with him said, “We are not able to go up against the people, for they are too strong for us.” So they gave out to the sons of Israel a bad report of the land which they had spied out, saying, “The land through which we have gone, in spying it out, is a land that devours its inhabitants; and all the people whom we saw in it are men of great size. There also we saw the Nephilim (the sons of Anak are part of the Nephilim), and we became like grasshoppers in our own sight, and so we were in
their sight.”
 
Genesis 6 and Numbers 13 (pre-Flood and post-Flood) list the term “Nephilim” which has been the center of discussion for many years. At this point, the identity of the Nephilim and the sons of God is still being debated in Christian circles. 
 
Of the views with some biblical support: 
 
Some believe that fallen angels bred with women and resulted in giants called Nephilim. 
 
Some believe the sons of God were the result of fallen angels who overtook ungodly men to breed with women. 
 
Some believe they were the Sethites (descendants of Adam’s son Seth) 
 
 
 
There are some minor views as well, such as kings, rulers, or heads of leading family groups as being godly from Psalm 82. This view has many similarities to the Sethite view but eliminates many of Seth’s descendants and merely keeps with the leaders/kings (as well as some other leaders of other tribes) as godly. 
 
Another variation of the Sethite view is that these godly men had relations with ungodly women, and the offspring followed after other “gods” as opposed to God—and “fell away” in tremendous ways. This is called the “fallen men” view. There are some minor non-biblical views but these are the primary ones. 
 
As you can see, there is a great deal of confusion over the word Nephilim. No one today really knows what it means. It is related to the verb series “to fall” (naphal) in Hebrew, which is why some direct this to fallen angels or more appropriately, their offspring. However, this also gives strong support to the view that men had fallen away from God. It was these two concepts that helped give rise to the various views mentioned above. 
 
Many have associated the Nephilim with giants. Giant traits may not have been limited to Nephilim alone: Goliath, a giant, was not considered Nephilim. As mentioned, the term Nephilim is unclear in definition. It is related to the verb “to fall” and the King James Version translates it as giants from the influence of the Latin Vulgate’s translation term “gigantes” as well as the context from Numbers 13. The context of Genesis 6 does not reveal they were giants. There may have been some influence on the Latin Vulgate by the Septuagint’s use of the Greek word “gigentes”.
 
In any event, the modern “Bigfoot” legend would have absolutely no association with the Nephilim mentioned in the Bible.

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“How to pray for supernatural healing for others and oneself when a bad health diagnosis has happened? Seemingly in the prime of life. Knowing that everything doesn’t always work out. How to keep faith and hope alive during these times.”
 
“If we have the Holy Spirit in us, why does he not protect us from sickness, death, or our body imperfections?”

In this JCC answer, I have combined two similar questions. These are similar in concern and content. Both express a question regarding our health and God’s involvement. I will try to summarize these questions into the following:
 

  1. How do we pray for healing and remain hopeful after a severe health diagnosis?

  2. Does the Holy Spirit protect us from sickness, death, and body imperfections?

 
Suffering entered the world when Adam and Eve sinned against God; Genesis 3, for instance, clearly illustrates both an increase in pain in childbirth and labor. Also, people began to age or suffer the consequences of mortality. 
 
Since then, people have known suffering in all its forms. While suffering can result from our own poor decisions, through evil done against us, or as a result of natural processes gone wrong, God sometimes uses our suffering for His purposes.
 
Consider God’s servant Job. Job, a wealthy man who adored his children, attracted Satan’s attention. In a cosmic conversation, Satan challenged God to allow him access to Job’s life, sure the man would curse God once his beloved children, health, and riches were torn from his grasp. Job, though, clung to God despite horrific suffering and served as a testimony of faithfulness to God and the heavenly armies as well as to those who have read the words of Scripture since.
 
Sometimes, individual suffering is used in our lives to influence others. Young Joseph, for instance, could not have known that when he was thrown in the pit, sold into slavery, or accused of rape that God would use him to save his family from starvation and ensure the survival of Israel.
 
Suffering, though painful, results in spiritual growth Romans 5:3-4. Saul, later known as Paul, provides a prime example. Known for persecuting believers, Jesus blinded Saul for three days—the first of many ways in which the apostle suffered—a situation that led to Saul’s conversion and a life of faith. Through the apostle Paul, the church expanded and introduced people outside of the Jewish faith to Christ.
 
As a Bible student and teacher, I often answer the question of why God allows suffering: “I don’t know for certain!” My answer may not sound or feel very theological. However, it does point to a truth that we sometimes forget: God’s ways and purposes are higher than ours, and we won’t always figure them out.
 
Many books have been written about suffering, and I am still ill-equipped to explain its purposes. When faced with suffering, believers have two choices: draw near to God or give up their faith. God has given us many good reasons to draw near to Him and not give up!
 
That is, in a sense, what happened in the Garden of Eden. When Satan deceived Eve, he invited her into suffering by giving up her relationship with God. But through His death on the cross, Jesus overcame the Enemy. As the second Adam, He has given us an eternal life free of heartache. Jesus provided hope in suffering! Rev 21:4 encourages with these words, “And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain for the former things have passed away.”
 
We CAN have hope in the midst of suffering! Based on the following verses, we discover the Bible instructs us to have hope in suffering because:
 
Our sufferings are “light and momentary” and “are achieving for us an eternal glory” (2 Corinthians 4:17). Paul reassures that when viewed from eternity, our pain will appear short-lived.
 
God is with us through every trial. “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles…” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).
 
Suffering produces a mature faith. “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that testing your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4).
 
Christ gives us His peace. “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).
 
While suffering is something we must all endure, those of us who know Christ as Savior can hold to the promises of scripture. Because He has already won the victory over death, we can trust our Lord is with us through every struggle!
 
This brings me to the second question: Does the Holy Spirit protect us from sickness, death, and body imperfections? I understand that the indwelling Holy Spirit’s key purpose is to provide every Christian with knowledge and power. However, I do not see in Scripture that His role is to protect us from death, sickness, or body imperfections.
 
We receive the gift of the Spirit not to add knowledge to our minds but to stimulate and strengthen our wills for obedience and service as we read and act upon the written word. To be “led by the Spirit” (Rom 8:14) is not to receive subjective intellectual enlightenment but to receive inward empowerment to overcome moral weakness and put sin to death in our bodies (Rom 8:13) as we study and try to live the Bible.
 
The second main work of the Spirit is to bestow power upon God’s people. He enters into the hearts and lives of all believers to allow them to fight the power of sin in their lives, i.e., He indwells them for sanctification (holy living).
 
Each of these, knowledge and power, certainly involves much more than will be discussed in this article. My main point is to help the reader see that the Holy Spirit’s indwelling tasks do not include protection from sickness, death, or bodily imperfections.
 
In closing, I am listing some sub-tasks associated with the Holy Spirit in the lives of His people:

He washes and renews us (Titus 3:5). 
He regenerates us (John 3:5-8, Titus 3:5). 
He glorifies and testifies of Christ (John 15:26, 16:14). 
He convicts the world of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8). 
He leads us (Rom. 8:14, Gal. 5:18, Matt. 4:1, Luke 4:1). 
He sanctifies us (2 Thess. 2:13, 1 Pet. 1:2, Rom. 5:16). 
He bears witness in us that we are children of God (Rom. 8:16). 
He empowers us (Luke 4:14, 24:49, Rom. 15:19, Acts 1:8). 
He comforts us (Acts 9:31) 
He brings unity and oneness to the body (Eph. 4:3, 2:14-18). 
He fills us (Eph. 5:18, Acts 2:4, 4:8, 31,9:17). 
He teaches us to pray (Rom. 8:26-27, Jude 1:20). 
He anoints us for ministry (Luke 4:18, Acts 10:38). 
He distributes spiritual gifts (1 Cor. 12:4, 8-10, Heb. 2:4). 
He is the guarantee and deposit of our resurrection (2 Cor. 1:22, 2 Cor. 5:5). 
He seals us unto the day of redemption (Eph. 1:13, 4:30). 
He sets us free from the law of sin and death (Rom. 8:2). 
He quickens our mortal bodies (Rom. 8:11). 
He reveals the deep things of God to us (1 Cor. 2:10). 
He reveals what God has given us (1 Cor. 2:12). 
He dwells in us (Rom. 8:9, 1 Cor. 3:16, 2 Tim. 1:14) 
He speaks to, in, and through us (Matt. 10:20, Acts 2:4, 8:29, 1 Cor. 2:3, 1 Tim. 4:1,
     Heb 3:7 Rev. 2:11). 
He is the agent by which we are baptized into the body of Christ (1 Cor. 12:13). 
He brings liberty (2 Cor. 3:17). 
He transforms us into the image of Christ (2 Cor. 3:18). 
He comes into our hearts and cries Abba, Father (Gal. 4:6). 
He enables us to wait (Gal. 5:5). 
He supplies us with Christ (Phil. 1:19, KJV). 
He grants everlasting life (Gal. 6:8). 
He gives us access to God the Father (Eph. 2:18). 
He makes habitations of God (Eph. 2:22). 
He reveals the mystery of God to us (Eph. 3:5). 
He strengthens our spirits (Eph. 3:16). 
He enables us to obey the truth (1 Pet. 1:22). 
He tells us that Jesus abides in us (1 John 3:24, 4:13). 
He confesses that Jesus came in the flesh (1 John 4:2). 
He makes overseers in the church. (Acts 20:28). 
He dispenses God’s love into our hearts (Rom. 5:5). 
He bears witness to the truth in our conscience (Rom. 9:1). 
He teaches us (1 Cor. 2:13) 
He gives us joy (1 Thess. 1:6). 
He enables us to preach the gospel (1 Pet. 1:12). 
He produces the fruit in us (Gal. 5:22-23). 
He knows the things of God (1 Cor. 2:11). 
He casts out demons (Matt. 12:28).  
He anoints us for ministry (Luke 4:18, Acts 10:38). 
He sends people out to minister. (Acts 13:2)

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“In Genesis 1:26, God said ‘Let us make man…’ – who is US?”

God is one, but He is also three. He is one and three at the same time. This is the doctrine of the Trinity. There is no biblical term that actually means “trinity”. However, we do find the concept of the Trinity in Scripture. The classical Christian doctrine is usually summed up that God is three persons who share one essence or substance. 
 
It is best to understand “person” as a thinking, willing center of consciousness. That God is three persons means that within the one divine nature are three individual centers of consciousness. Each of the persons is fully conscious of Himself as distinct from the other two and as existing in an eternal interpersonal relationship with the other two. The Bible calls these three persons the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. 
 
Though they are three, these persons are nevertheless one God. Whatever the concept of the Trinity means, it does not mean that the essence of God is somehow divided into three distinct units. Also, God possesses the unity of singularity, meaning that no other God exists besides the one true God. Whatever the concept of the Trinity means, it does not mean that there are three separate Gods. Within the context of the Trinity, that God is one means that the three centers of consciousness share one and the same divine essence or being or substance. 
 
To say that Father, Son, and Spirit are one in essence means that the totality of divine substance, the whole of “whatever it is to be God,” belongs to each of them. The main implication of this is that each is equally divine. In whatever sense the Father is divine, so also are the Son and the Holy Spirit. All the attributes of divinity belong equally to each of the three. It cannot be otherwise since they share the same essence. 
 
There are several passages linking the three persons together in a formula-like way that emphasizes their essential equality. Of course, one is the content of the question asked prompting this document, Gen 1:26, “Let us make man in our image.” Also, the baptismal formula in Matt 28:19, “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.” Another is the benediction in 2 Cor 13:14, “The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit, be with you all.” Another is the reference to the threefold source of spiritual gifts in 1 Cor 12:4-6, “Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit. And there are varieties of ministries and the same Lord. There are varieties of effects, but the same God.” See also 1 Pet 1:2, which says that the saints are chosen “according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, by the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to obey Jesus Christ and be sprinkled with His blood.” All of these passages show that Christians are redemptively related not just to an abstract deity but to the three persons who are the one true and living God. 
 
Other trinitarian texts are Rom 15:30; 1 Cor 6:11; 2 Cor 1:21-22; Gal 4:6; Eph 2:18; 3:14-17; 5:18-20; 1 Thess 5:18-19; 2 Thess 2:13; 1 John 4:13-14; Jude 20-21; Rev 1:4-5.

 

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“What is the line between being abundantly blessed and being humble? I have a friend that is so put off by other pastors who seem to be reaping massive financial benefits from the church. How can I help him understand how to recognize where the right and wrong is, and help him understand that not all Christian pastors lead the same way, even though all claim to follow Jesus? Basically, shouldn’t the mega churches be blessing their community more than their pastors?”

Before I answer the question, I want to provide some biblical clarification regarding the term “pastor” used in the question. The Bible teaches us that the terms pastor, elder, shepherd, overseer, and bishop are interchangeable, representing the same individual. I assume the person asking the question is referring to the congregation's preacher, minister, or evangelist. It is a common biblical error by many well-meaning people to refer to these individuals as pastors. For clarification purposes, I will use the general term “servant leader” in referring to the individual in the question.

Now to answer the question. There is nothing wrong with a Christian, whether a servant leader or not, to have possessions, as long as their possessions do not possess them. That would also mean that they are generous toward others and open to contributing to other ministries or causes, as the Holy Spirit leads them. Jesus made it clear why a rich person would have difficulty entering the kingdom of heaven. It is too easy to begin trusting in one’s money, more than trusting in God. Jesus taught that a person cannot serve two masters, such as God and money. Sooner or later, that person will choose the one over the other. He said that they would actually come to the place where they would love the one, and hate the other. If this happens, money has become their idol. 
 
Every Christian should do their best to glorify God and to try to see that whatever they do is for God’s glory. Nothing we have really belongs to us, nor can we take it with us when we leave this world. We are simply charged as a steward of what God blesses us with, we are either a just or unjust steward. Here are some verses telling us what a servant leader should be, among other things, please note the words, noble, self-controlled, and not a lover of money.
 
1Ti 3:1 The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.
 
1Ti 3:2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
 
1Ti 3:3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.
 
People getting rich from the fears of others or the insecurities of others is nothing new as Acts 8 teaches. Simon the sorcerer exemplifies both the motivation of these types of people and the rebuke of their selfish desire to pursue the abilities of others for their profit. The misuse of the purpose of spiritual gifts for personal enrichment or self-promotion is demonstrated clearly in Acts 14:12 and Acts 10:26.
 
It is important to realize that it is not a sin to be wealthy. The ancient patriarchs Job, Abraham, and King Solomon were all very wealthy. In fact, God made them wealthy (Job 42:12-16; Genesis 12:1-3; 13:2; 1 Kings 3:10-14). God’s action simply proves that being wealthy is not wrong or God would not have done that. 
 
In addition to these examples in the Old Testament, God tells wealthy Christians in 1 Timothy 6:17-19 to handle their wealth properly:
 
“Instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy. Instruct them to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, storing up for themselves the treasure of a good foundation for the future so that they may take hold of that which is life indeed.” (1 Tim 6:17-19.)
 
There are some poor people who are controlled by money just as much as some rich people. Also, there are people who give their money to others without regard to how much they own. Having money is not the issue. The issue is our heart’s attitude toward the money that God has given us.
 
In the following verse, notice that the ownership of money is not the root of evil. The love of money is the root of all sorts of evil:
 
“For the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. (1 Tim 6:10”.)
 
A New Testament principle is that those who receive spiritual benefits from the gospel ministry must be willing to support their servant leaders (Acts 20:33–34; 1 Thess. 2:9; 2 Thess. 3:7–9). Even though Paul had turned down the financial assistance of the Corinthians, he insists that it is his God-given right to receive payment for the work he does in the church. Already in 1 Corinthians, he rooted this practice in the Israelites’ material support of the priests and Levites: “Do you not know that those who minister the holy things eat of the things of the temple, and those who serve at the altar partake of the offerings of the altar? Even so, the Lord has commanded that those who preach the gospel should live from the gospel” (1 Cor. 9:13–14).
 
This principle means that it is still incumbent on churches today to faithfully support the gospel ministry being done in their midst. Such assistance allows servant leaders to devote much of their time to the task of serving the church. They can do so without being distracted by material concerns or occupied with labors that are unrelated to ministry. 
 
To be sure, this support may take on different forms depending on the possibilities of the local context. Some servant leaders may have a “tentmaking” ministry, as Paul did. (Acts 18:1-4). That is, when a congregation is unable to fully fund its servant leaders, they might do some other paid labor on the side. Likewise, missionaries do not expect to be supported by the people to whom they preach the gospel, at least initially. The form of ministry support varies widely in different places and situations, but the principle remains. Through their grateful giving, church members will support those who work in the gospel so that Christ’s word can continue to be preached.
 
Paul was mindful of how the love of money can have a corrupting influence on a leader’s ministry. This awareness is clear from Paul’s words of farewell to the Ephesian elders in Acts 20. There he insists that while he was among them, he “coveted no one’s silver or gold” (Acts 20:33), but he was willing to work with his hands to support himself and his companions. And thinking of his flashy rivals in Corinth, Paul denounces those who peddle the Word of God for personal profit (2 Cor. 2:17).
 
The servant leader’s challenge is the same that is faced by all Christians. By nature, we want to stand on our rights and we demand our entitlements. Greed and pride are ever-prowling. Yet Scripture exhorts all believers to be content with what we have (1 Tim. 6:6). When we are saved by Christ and have freely received his eternal inheritance, we have the ultimate reason to be content. Besides, God the Father has graciously promised to supply all our daily needs (Heb. 13:5). With confidence in God’s promise to provide, servant leaders can keep their focus on doing the work of dedicated ministry. Such a contented approach to money not only sets a good example to the congregation, it also honors Christ and His gospel.
 
A church should know that their servant leaders love them far more than their money. And a servant leader should know that their congregation stands behind and beside them with their whole-hearted support. Christ will surely bless such a servant leader-church relationship with fruitfulness and faithfulness. It is certainly expected, as promised by God, that through this blessed relationship, many will come to know Jesus as their Savior and Christ’s church will be victorious!

 

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"Predestination vs. Free will"

Let me begin with an example: The New Testament church as a group is God’s “chosen race” (1 Pet 2:9; Col 3:12), and when one is added to the church, they become one of “the elect.” When the Bible speaks of predestination to salvation, it usually refers to specific persons who are predestined and not to an abstract group or an impersonal plan. These individuals made a “free will” choice to become followers of Christ and, therefore, became the chosen race, the elect, the saved, the church, the bride of Christ. God, in His foreknowledge, knew these decisions would occur. His foreknowledge has no direct impact upon an individual’s free choice decision!
 
In Rom 8:29-30 Paul speaks of persons who are not only predestined but also called, justified, and glorified. In 2 Thessalonians 2:13, he says, "God has chosen you,” the Christians of Thessalonica, “for salvation.” In Rom 16:13, Rufus is identified as an elect person. In 1 Pet 1:1-2, the apostle greets the elect Christians in several specific geographical areas. Revelation 17:8 implies that specific names have been written in the Book of Life from the foundation of the world. Although their decision to follow Christ was their individual free will decision, their very names have been known to God from the beginning because of His divine foreknowledge. 
 
“Rejoice that your names are recorded in heaven” (Luke 10:20). How is it possible that God could determine even before the creation which individuals would be saved and could even write their names in the Book of Life? The answer is found in the fact and nature of God’s foreknowledge, which, according to Scripture, is the very basis for predestination (Rom 8:29; 1 Pet 1:1-2). 
 
That God has foreknowledge means that He sees the future, and He sees it not as a nearsighted man might see vague outlines at a blurry distance but as someone with perfect vision sees every far-off detail through a powerful telescope. We must say, then, that God predestines specific individuals to salvation. Is this the same as Calvinism? No. Calvinism teaches not just a predestination to salvation but a predestination to faith itself: They teach that God determines which unbelievers will become believers. This is not the predestination taught in the Bible.
 
The individuals whom God foreknows (Rom 8:29) will become believers of their own free will choice. These are the ones whose names He records in the Lamb’s Book of Life and who are predestined to glory. 
 
Rather than certain God-selected unbelievers being predestined to become believers, all foreknown free will choice believers are predestined to enjoy the benefits of salvation. This is seen in 2 Thess 2:13, where Paul says, “God has chosen you Thessalonian believers from the beginning for salvation.” In 1 Peter 1:1-2, this salvation is seen to include the double cure: a life of good works and justification by the blood of Jesus (“chosen . . . to obey Jesus Christ and be sprinkled with His blood”). 
 
Romans 8:29 states clearly that those whom He foreknew were “predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son so that He would be the first-born among many brethren.” Some mistakenly take this to be a reference to the sinner’s spiritual re-creation in the moral image of Jesus. Still, the context references our final inheritance, the redeemed and glorified body we will receive at the final resurrection (Rom 8:11,23). “The image of His Son” refers to the fact that our resurrection bodies will be like that of Christ (Phil 3:21; 1 Cor 15:29; 2 Cor 3:18). Thus, we as believers are chosen to become God’s glorified children (Rom 8:30) with Christ being the “first-born among many brethren” because he was “the first-born from the dead” (Col 1:18; Rev 1:5), i.e., the first to be raised in a gloried body (Acts 13:34; 26:13; Rom 6:9; 1 Cor 15:20). 
 
Acts 2:23 also refers to the foreknowledge of God the Father; its object is Jesus Christ and the circumstances of His death. Jesus was delivered up “by the predetermined plan and foreknowledge of God.” “Predetermined plan” is equivalent to predestination; i.e., God had already determined from eternity that Christ would die for our sins. That He was delivered up “by foreknowledge” means that God foreknew all the human acts of participation in Christ’s betrayal and death, such as those of Judas and Herod. God did not predetermine these acts, but He knew them in advance and, therefore, could work His plan along with them and through them.
 
This is the only sense in which some are predestined to be saved. That is, God predestines believers to go to heaven, just as He predestines unbelievers to go to hell. But He does not predestine anyone to become and remain a believer or to remain an unbeliever. This is a free-will choice made by each individual; however, it is a choice that God foreknows. Thus, the critical difference between predestination and free will!

 

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“The Bible says we are to ‘respect and obey’ our leaders…
​How do we do that when our elected government officials are not someone I remotely respect?”

The word of God gives us some general guidelines about our relationship with government or national matters. First, we must be noted for obeying those in authority. "Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. There is no authority except from God, and the existing authorities are appointed by God. Therefore, whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves." (Rom 13:1-2). 
 
"Remind them to be subject to rulers and authorities, to obey, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing all humility to all men" (Tit 3:1-2). "Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme; Or unto governors, as unto them that he sends for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well" (1 Pet 2:13-14). 

Suppose the government should require something of us that conflicts with God's will. In that case, we are to remember that "we ought to obey God rather than men" (Acts 5:29). Thus, Daniel refused to obey the king's commandment to cease praying to God (Dan 6:12). Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednigo declined to obey the king's demand that they bow down before an idol (Dan 3:18).

Second, we are to pray for those who are in authority to be able to lead a quiet and peaceable life in a godly and honest manner. "I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty" (1 Tim 2:1-2). 

Third, we should pray for the peace of the place where we live. This principle was given to Israel when they were carried away into captivity. Away from their homeland and under oppression, the Lord told them, "And seek the peace of the city whither I have caused you to be carried away captives, and pray unto the LORD for it: for in the peace thereof shall ye have peace" (Jeer 29:7). This blends well with the passage in First Timothy that is cited above.

As to other purely national interests, such as dealing with immigrants, this is different from the work of those in Christ Jesus. Nations, as well as individuals, are to be noted for hospitality, not hostility, toward those who are from other areas. Jerusalem received the wise men from the East when Jesus was born (Matt 2:1-7). Egypt received Jacob, his sons, and their households during a famine in Israel (Exodus 1:5). Egypt also received Joseph, Mary, and the holy child Jesus when fleeing Herod (Matt 2:13-15).

Following the interpretation of his dreams, Pharaoh welcomed young Joseph to Egypt, making him the second ruler of the land (Gen 41:43-44). Nebuchadnezzar, Belshazzar, Cyrus, and Darius honored Jewish Daniel in their empires (Dan 3:48; 5:29; 6:28). God instructed Israel to welcome the stranger into their land, not vexing or troubling them (Ex 22:21; 23:9). However, this was to be accomplished within the laws of the land.

It is helpful to remember that while we are citizens of America, that is not our primary citizenship. Those in Christ are fundamentally "citizens of heaven" (Phil 3:20). As your concern for national interests increases, Jesus will begin to recede into the background of your thinking. You should not allow such things to become a distraction but ask the Lord to give you insight, peace, and firm hope amid these concerns. He will answer your prayer!
 

 

“If God’s justice demands our pardon in Christ, then how could we ever lose that?
How could we actually ‘fall from grace?’”
 

Many believe that once a person has become saved, they can be sure of their present status of salvation and have God’s guarantee that they will never lose it. Once we are saved, we will remain saved forever; once the gift of salvation has been received, it is irrevocable. This is called the “once saved, always saved” view, also described as “once in grace, always in grace,” “final perseverance,” and “eternal security.”
 
The conditionality of staying saved is affirmed in numerous passages.  For example, John 8:31 says, “So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, ‘If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine.’” The key word here, and in the following texts, is IF: “if you continue.” Here, Jesus speaks to those who were already believers and declares that continuing in His word and continuing to believe His teaching is a condition for faithful discipleship. This implies that believers can stop believing and cease being disciples. 
 
The conditional nature of staying saved and the possibility of a believer becoming lost is taught in several scriptures. Let’s look first at John 15:1-6. Here, Jesus is discussing those who are already indeed in a saved state; they are branches that are “in Me” (v. 2), fully attached to the life-giving vine. But Jesus encourages these branches to “abide in Me” (v. 4), implying that whether we abide or remain in the vine is our responsibility. Verse 6 shows that it is possible for one to choose not to abide in Christ: “If anyone does not abide in Me.” If anyone makes this choice, two things follow. 1. The individual who does not abide in Christ (i.e., ceases to believe) “is thrown away as a branch and dries up.” He was at one time inside the church, inside the love of God, inside the circle of grace, but now he is outside, excluded from grace, as the result of his initiative, not God’s. 2. Those who choose to stop believing and who are, as a result, excluded from grace are finally condemned to hell: “They gather them and cast them into the fire, and they are burned” (see Matt 13:40-42). Here, the excluded branches themselves, the fallen ones, are burned. 
 
A similar text that shows the conditional nature of staying saved is Rom 11:17-22. Here, the original olive tree represents OT Israel, with the natural branches standing for the Jews; the present version of the olive tree represents the church, with the combination of natural and engrafted branches standing for Jews and Gentiles who have become believers in Christ. In explaining this analogy, Paul makes two points that disprove the “once saved, always saved” doctrine. First, when the natural branches (the Jews) were confronted with the gospel and then refused to accept Jesus as their Messiah and Lord, “they were broken off for their unbelief” (v. 20). Even if they were true believers in Yahweh and in a saved state before hearing the gospel, by rejecting Christ they became unbelievers, they “fell” (v. 22), and thus were rejected by God and lost their salvation. Second, Paul warns the Gentiles who became believers and were grafted into the olive tree to remain faithful, “for if God did not spare the natural branches, He will not spare you, either. Behold then the kindness and severity of God; to those who fell, severity, but to you, God’s kindness, if you continue in His kindness; otherwise, you also will be cut off” (vv. 21-22). The final responsibility for staying saved belongs to the believer: “if you continue in His kindness.” The result of not continuing is made very clear; “otherwise you also,” like the unbelieving Jews, “will be cut off.” 
 
Another passage to consider is 1 Cor 15:1-2, “Now I make known to you, brethren, the gospel which I preached to you, which also you received, in which also you stand, by which also you are saved if you hold fast the word which I preached to you unless you believed in vain.” Here, Paul speaks to those who have known the gospel facts concerning Jesus (vv. 3-4), who have received them (past tense), who are standing in them (present tense), and who are saved by them (present tense). Indeed, he is speaking of those who have truly “believed” (v. 2). But Paul says that continuing in this saved state is conditioned on continuing to hold fast to these facts or continuing to trust in the saving work of Jesus for salvation: “if you hold fast.” If you do not hold fast, your past and present faith will mean nothing; that faith will be “in vain.” 
 
Another text is Col 1:21-23. Verse 21 describes the Colossians’ (and every Christian’s) former state: “formerly alienated and hostile in mind, engaged in evil deeds.” Verse 22 then relates our present and future states. We are “now reconciled,” i.e., no longer aliens and enemies, but in a saved state because of our faith in the gospel (v. 23). Our future is the complete sanctification and deliverance from sin that characterizes heaven: “to present you before Him holy and blameless and beyond reproach.” However, whether we reach that final salvation depends on whether we continue to believe in Jesus Christ. Verse 23 states this condition: “If indeed you continue in the faith firmly established and steadfast, and not moved away from the hope of the gospel.” The unavoidable implication is that we may choose not to “continue in the faith” and may allow ourselves to be “moved away from the hope of the gospel.” Such a contingency would not result from a lapse in God’s protection nor the triumph of an enemy power; it would simply be the individual’s exercise of his God-given free will. The passages just discussed uniformly emphasize the conditionality of staying in a saved state: “if you continue . . . if anyone does not abide in me . . . if you continue . . . if you hold fast . . . if indeed you continue.” Even though now you are genuinely saved, if you do not continue to hold on to Jesus with true faith, you will be truly lost. 
 
In Rom 11:22, Paul speaks of the Jews who became unbelievers as “those who fell,” and he says that any Christian who does not continue to trust in the provisions of God’s grace “will be cut off.” In the former case, the lostness is actual, and in the latter case, it is potential, but in both cases, it is real. 
 
In 1 Cor 9:24-27, the Apostle Paul says that it is possible to run in a race and still lose and not receive the prize (v. 24). Some think this means that undisciplined believers (vv. 25-26) will simply lose their rewards, but not their salvation as such. Verse 27, however, shows this is not the case: “But I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified.” The alternative to finishing the race is to be “disqualified” (adokimos). Every other NT use of this Greek word refers to the state of lostness, not a loss of rewards. Paul is saying that he could lose his salvation if he does not persevere in the race. In addressing the Judaizers in Gal 5:4, Paul affirms that they “have been severed from Christ” and “have fallen from grace.” This is a state of lostness, which was preceded by a state of salvation. They could not have been severed from Christ unless they were joined to him; they could not have fallen from grace unless they had been standing in it (Rom 5:2). 
 
In 2 Pet 2:4, we are told that angels who sinned are “reserved for judgment,” i.e., lost and destined for hell. We must assume that all angels were created holy and in a right relationship with God and that all were created with the free will to remain holy or rebel against God and become lost. In this second chapter, Peter uses the “angels who sinned” as an analogy for Christian teachers who stray into heresy and wickedness and thus lose their salvation (vv. 1-3,9-19). That these teachers at one time were true believers is seen in verse 15, which says they have forsaken the right way and “have gone astray.” This is especially seen in verses 20-22, where these false teachers are described as earlier having “escaped the defilements of the world by the knowledge of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ” (v. 20). As having “known the way of righteousness” (v. 21). They have experienced three states: lost, saved, and lost again, just as “a sow, after washing, returns to wallowing in the mire” (v. 22). The bad news is that “the last [lost again] state has become worse for them than the first” [original] lost state (v. 20). Without doubt this passage refers to specific individuals who fell from grace and lost their salvation. They are “twice dead,” as Jude 12 (NIV) says. 
 
An even more straightforward teaching on the reality of falling from grace is Heb 6:4-8. The entire letter to the Hebrews is based on the fact that such a fall is possible. The letter is being written to Jews (i.e., Hebrews) who had become Christians but who are now thinking they had made a mistake and are seriously considering abandoning their Christian faith and reconverting to Judaism. The theme of the entire letter is the danger and the foolishness of such a decision.
 
If this decision is not possible, then the whole book of Hebrews is a sham. However, Hebrews is filled with warnings against turning away from Jesus Christ, the only source of salvation (2:1-3; 3:12-14; 4:1,11; 10:26-39; 12:25). The most apparent such warning is Heb 6:4-8. On the one hand, here, the writer is, without doubt, speaking of those who are truly saved since they possess five characteristics of the saved state; here are those five characteristics:
 
1) They are “enlightened,” i.e., they possess true knowledge and understanding of the gospel. 
 
2) They “have tasted of the heavenly gift,” the gift of salvation in general (Eph 2:8-9). 
 
3) They “have been made partakers of the Holy Spirit,” having drunk the living water (John 7:37-39; 1 Cor 12:13). 
 
4) They “have tasted the good word of God,” having believed and received its promises. 
 
5) They have tasted “the powers of the age to come,” referring to the already experienced resurrection from spiritual death (Eph 2:5; Col 2:12-13), in anticipation of the future redemptive resurrection of the body. 
 
The use of the word “taste” in Greek (geuomai) in these verses does not imply a tentative, aborted sampling of salvation in contrast with actual eating or consuming. (See Heb 2:9, where the same word is used for Christ’s tasting death on the cross.) It is used instead to contrast the real but incomplete salvation experienced in this life with the fullness of salvation to be received in glory, in the same sense that the present gift of the indwelling Holy Spirit is but a pledge or down payment of the entire inheritance that is to come (2 Cor 1:22; Eph 1:13-14). The fact that those to whom this passage speaks are true Christians is also shown in the statement that, if they fall away, “it is impossible to renew them again to repentance” (v. 6). To speak of renewing them again to repentance indicates that they were once in a state of repentance, indicative of salvation. 
 
On the other hand, it is also clear that this passage warns against the reality of becoming truly lost instead of simply losing one’s rewards. Verse 6 warns against becoming “fallen away,” a state devoid of repentance and hostile to Christ. The fallen one’s life yields “thorns and thistles”; it is “worthless” and close to being cursed, and it ends up being burned” (v. 8; see John 15:6). 
 
Passages like these indeed contradict the “once saved, always saved” idea. They cannot be explained away as referring only to people who were never saved in the first place, nor can they be reduced to the loss of rewards rather than of salvation as such. Nor can we say that they are merely hypothetical warnings by which God motivates us to remain faithful by threatening us with a scenario that could never occur. Such a tactic would be deceitful and cruel, unworthy of our gracious and loving Savior.
 
I hope this has answered the question logically and carefully through a review of God’s word. Before I close, and perhaps I am going too far beyond the question, I believe it is important to consider how one " falls from grace.” 
 
To answer this question, we must remember the central doctrine of grace, that a sinner is justified by faith apart from works of law (Rom 3:28). We not only initially become justified by faith; we also remain justified by faith in the atoning death of Jesus Christ. Falling from grace occurs when our faith in the blood of Jesus dies. 
 
The Christian must be on constant guard concerning his faith, using every opportunity to strengthen it and being constantly aware of how it may die. What are the ways in which faith may die? I will suggest three. 
 
First, faith may be put to death through an act of sudden suicide (spiritual, not physical), i.e., by a deliberate decision to stop believing in Christ and his saving work, thus renouncing the Christian faith. This is the choice being contemplated by the converts from Judaism to which the letter to the Hebrews was originally written. They seem to be wondering if they had made a mistake by becoming Christians and were considering renouncing Christ and returning to their OT faith and practice. A similar decision may be and sometimes is made by Christians from other backgrounds, e.g., by someone who has begun to have intellectual doubts about the truth of Christ and His works or who allows a personal tragedy (such as the death of a loved one) to destroy his belief in an all-powerful, all-loving Creator. 
 
A second way faith may die is through slow starvation (spiritual, not physical). Faith does not come into existence full-grown but begins with a stage of infancy, often tender and fragile and definitely in need of maturing and strengthening. Thus, faith must constantly be nurtured, nourished, and exercised. To this end, God has provided us with spiritual disciplines such as those in Acts 2:42: “the apostles’ teaching,” or in post-apostolic times, Bible study; “fellowship,” which includes an active church life; “breaking of bread,” or consistent and faithful participation in the Lord’s Supper; and “prayer.” These are how faith is nourished; to neglect them allows faith to weaken or even to die. This is a true sense in which “faith without works is dead” (James 2:26). In his parable of the sower, Jesus warns us of this danger. Sometimes, he says, the seeds of the Word fall “on the rocky places, where they did not have much soil; and immediately they sprang up because they had no depth of soil. But when the sun had risen, they were scorched; Because they had no root, they withered away” (Matt 13:5-6). This represents “the man who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy. Yet, he has no firm root in himself but is only temporary, and when affliction or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he falls away” (13:20-21). Faithful participation in the spiritual disciplines mentioned above is necessary to extend faith's roots beyond and beneath the rocky places of life, enabling them to anchor and nourish the Christian life. If we are not careful to extend these roots, spiritual starvation results. 
 
A third way that faith may die is through strangulation by sin. After conversion, if a Christian allows sins to continue and to flourish without fighting against them, they will sooner or later choke the life out of his faith. In the parable of the sower, Jesus speaks of seeds that “fell among the thorns, and the thorns came up and choked them out” (Matt 13:7). Jesus explains, “And the one on whom seed was sown among the thorns, this is the man who hears the word, and the worry of the world and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful” (13:22). 
 
Some are tempted to think that because God’s grace forgives all sins and salvation is assured, it does not matter if we keep on sinning (Rom 6:1). In response, Paul points out that becoming a Christian involves not just forgiveness but also regeneration, in which we are raised up from a state of spiritual death (Eph 2:1,5) to walk in a new spiritual life where sin does not belong (Rom 6:2-14). But if one continues to live a life controlled by the sins of the flesh, he will surely go back into that state of spiritual death: “For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live” (Rom 8:13,). Peter warns those who have “escaped the defilements of the world” of the danger of again becoming “entangled in them” and being “overcome” (2 Pet 2:20). 
 
Continuing to purposely sin after becoming a Christian is like opening the gates of the fort and inviting the enemy inside. God will protect us (1 Pet 1:5), but we must make a deliberate effort to keep our faith alive and strong by clinging to Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord!

 

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